Happy mama to be

So I found out I was pregnant this morning and I’m abit shocked because this wasn’t a planned baby but still a lovely surprise 🥰 how did anyone who’s got 2 children find the transition?

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Congratulations! 🥰 personally I found the transition from 1-2 way easier than 0-1

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Honestly, 1-2 was really tough for me. It was my older child’s behaviour that was the most difficult thing. I’m nearly 11 months in and it’s finally getting easier again. There are so many lovely moments though. It’s so amazing watching your oldest become a big sibling and you soak up all the baby time so much more second time around. Your heart grows. Just give your oldest the biggest cuddle ever before you leave to have baby, as when you come back they will feel like a giant. Congrats!

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I am utterly terrified I am 100% set on an epidural but if I labour fast like her by the time we get to hospital sit and wait to be assessed, wait for labour ward , wait for the doctor to be free ect ect . There mayyy boy be time . I’m utterly terrified it’s all I have been able to think about for days I go to sleep thinking about it I wake up thinking about it I’m even dreaming about it now .

I don’t really know what to do . I was offered an induction at 39 weeks for pgp and when I asked to talk to my midwife about it at my 34 week appointment( that another midwife made to discuss it ) she said no we will talk about it at ur next one wich is at 37 weeks 😩

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Happy mama to be

So I found out I was pregnant this morning and I’m abit shocked because this wasn’t a planned baby but still a lovely surprise 🥰 how did anyone who’s got 2 children find the transition?

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