Please help

I guess the main question is “Are we talking about malicious, deliberate pushing, or a physical little boy who just wants to play?”.

Many people don’t want to admit that, but there will always be a clear biological difference between men and women. At that age (3-4 years old), that difference comes across as boys being much more “physical” and “aggressive” than girls. To an extent it’s normal, especially if it’s towards other boys who will “physically fight back” and see it as play. Girls are less likely to respond in a playful manner.

Modern safeguarding practices sometimes try to prevent human nature.

Obviously, if it’s indeed a behavioural issue, you need to be clear about physical boundaries.

Don’t worry !!!
I’ve worked in nurseries for years and the kindest of kids can push hit kick bite ect
If it’s something that’s causing injury you’ll get an incident report they might just be letting you know so you can talk about kind hands at home .

Talk to your son about kind hands and being gentle & that we don’t push that’s all you can do physicall altercations with kids are so common ! X

Is the school just giving you a heads up but taking care of it? Or are they asking you to do something?
They should be reminding him about school rules. Redirecting. Doing lessons about emotions and respecting others bodies. My daughter’s school started the day and post nap reading the rule board. This isn’t something you can help with too much because you’re not there…

Doing lessons about appropriate ways to handle emotions is good at home but the teachers will need to know what you’re teaching him.

Noo they were not asking me to do anything
They said they gonna do it from there's
The other staff member was not clear and really scared us
The manager has told me later