Bed transition
Hey all, looking for some help or advice with sleep transitioning I bought my little boy a double floor bed and we can’t seem to get him in the bed on his own - one of us have to lie with him until he falls asleep and then crawl out but if he wakes up in the night he cries and ones of us has to get back in the bed with him and then around 5am he wakes up and turns his light on and just sits on his bed then I’m finding myself having to get into bed with him to get him to go back to sleep as he is tired. But running on a lack of sleep and time with my partner is starting to take its toll so hoping for some help advice and tips that people have done or is the solution to just co sleep with him👀
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I mean my advice is to just co sleep when he needs it. He'll only want you in his bed for such a short period, and you have the rest of your life to share a bed with your husband. I kinda love getting into bed with kids tbh
Have you asked him what he is worried about? For our son it was ‘the quiet at night’ that he was worried out. He just hates the house being silent and it scars him. He also needs a lot of light in his room! We gave him a tonie box and it’s been revolutionary. If he wakes up and he puts a tonie on very loudly and falls back to sleep 99% of the time
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Bed transition
Hey all, looking for some help or advice with sleep transitioning I bought my little boy a double floor bed and we can’t seem to get him in the bed on his own - one of us have to lie with him until he falls asleep and then crawl out but if he wakes up in the night he cries and ones of us has to get back in the bed with him and then around 5am he wakes up and turns his light on and just sits on his bed then I’m finding myself having to get into bed with him to get him to go back to sleep as he is tired. But running on a lack of sleep and time with my partner is starting to take its toll so hoping for some help advice and tips that people have done or is the solution to just co sleep with him👀
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