Not feeling excited yet

It's really normal for some people to not feel attached until they meet their baby, also this is a massive adjustment! Some people don't get excited or bonded because it's their first and they have so many other things to handle/manage. For example I've not really spoken to my baby yet and I found out she could hear now.
I would bring it up with a midwife though, just so they can get you to an obstetrics mental health appointment if you feel you need a professionals opinion. I would also like to say this doesn't mean at all you won't have a bond with baby when they come or make you more susceptible to PPD/PPA but if you ever feel you have symptoms of either during your PP journey definitely speak to someone

I wouldn’t feel too worried, sometimes it’s the case of it not feeling entirely real yet!

I am excited but not at the same time, I know the gender I’ve felt the little kicks but I just don’t feel like it’s real, almost like im waiting for something to happen so I can’t let my self be excited if that makes sense? But everyone’s feelings are normal and valid. My suggestion maybe try to do things with bump eg, stories, listening to music with the phone on your bump.