I just need support

My husband is cheating on me, I’m 35 weeks pregnant. I have no family around, I just found out and I’m sleeping in my in laws house tonight. He doesn’t even know what’s going on bc he was drunk when I left the house.
I can’t just leave him, I’m not working I quit my job
I’m too scare I don’t know what to do

in our community

Why are so many parents against tv/screen time?

Me and all my 4 siblings were never “not allowed tv” we had access to it 24/7, we loved it…but we also loved playing together and playing outside. What is so terrible about watching tv?

As an adult who still spends time outside or playing with my kids, all I see is other adults staring at their phone, scrolling on social media…idk I’m just confused why there’s such a stigma around letting a child watch tv i guess.

All these influencers or mums on the playground I hear that say “no tv time for my kids” yet they spend all day everyday on their phone? If it’s damaging, why is there screens quite literally everywhere? Shouldn’t we try to do something about this?

I’ve lost attraction to my husband

Like the title says, I’ve lost attraction to my husband. His mom is constantly buying him clothes and frankly I see my husband as less of a man and not an adult because of it. I find it rather gross that she is constantly buying him clothes when he has perfectly good clothes and a wife that can go buy some if needed

Drained

Hey guys I’m currently married and I strongly believe he’s a narcissist, I’m posting this to see if anyone has been in a similar situation. I have no job or car and no family. We have a 1yr old together . I don’t know how to leave

Toddler Tingz

Does anyone else let their 2yr old roam and eat?😂 luckily we have no carpet downstairs but sometimes it’s the only way he’ll eat a full meal 😆 *grab a tortellini, run a lap, come back grab a breadstick, do a pretend phone call* lmao

I think I'm falling out of love with my partner, and honestly, I just want to experience being in love again

Lately, I've been feeling like I'm falling out of love with my partner. I don't know if it's resentment or if I'm genuinely just tired of him, but sometimes even looking at him irritates me.

I feel like all he does is work, come home, and play video games. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate that he works, but sir, if you were single, wouldn't you still have to work AND take care of your home?

I'm tired of asking a grown man to do basic things. Take out the trash? "Tomorrow." Clean the bathroom? Never done. Sweep the floor? Never done. And when he finally does something, it's with an attitude. Then he'll ask, "What do you want me to do?" BRO, LOOK AROUND! 😭

There was even a point when I had to encourage him to shower regularly and take care of his hair because his dandruff was so bad. And he would actually get upset with me for bringing up his hygiene! Thankfully, he's much better about taking care of himself now, and I'm glad we've moved past that. But WHY did I have to go through that in the first place? Why did I have to remind a grown man to take care of himself?

And what's worse is how he speaks to me. I've noticed he's gentle and respectful toward other men, but with me, he'll curse, make disrespectful jokes, and speak to me anyhow. Like, sir, why do other men get your sweet, respectful side while I get the attitude? Who are you trying to impress? 😂

At this point, I've even found myself taking money from his piggy bank and joking that it's compensation for all my unpaid labor and stress. 😭 I know that's not a healthy way to deal with resentment, but that's where I'm at emotionally.

Honestly, I'm just exhausted. I don't want to feel like someone's mother. I want to feel like someone's girlfriend, someone's love, someone's person.

Lately, I've been daydreaming about falling in love again. I want that K-drama type of romance. 😂 A man who's genuinely smitten with me, who's thoughtful, affectionate, romantic, and excited to spend time with me. Someone who makes me feel beautiful, feminine, wanted, and appreciated.

I know real relationships aren't K-dramas, but is it too much to want deep romantic love? I miss the butterflies, flirting, dates, meaningful conversations, and the feeling of someone genuinely being interested in me.

I just want to be able to relax and be loved without feeling like I have to manage everything.

And the saddest part? I don't even know if I want him to change anymore. I'm just tired of having to ask for the bare minimum.

Has anyone else experienced this? Did you eventually fall back in love, or did you realize you were already emotionally checked out?

Relationship

I don’t really know why I’m posting this… but I’m just feeling like my relationship Is in such a weird place at the moment, it feels like we have our roles but like there’s no cross over and it’s leaving me feeling resentment? I am and always have been the default parent 99% of the time for the past 14 months. We literally never have sex or show any affection towards eachother. We don’t argue loads or anything like that but it feels like we’re just surviving. He works and we decided that I would stay at home with our little one a bit longer which I am so grateful for, we’re very lucky he has a good income but it feels like he still gets time off/out when he wants yet I’m constantly doing all the parenting. I dunno I’m not sure if it’s normal for us to not be having fun with eachother or intimate at all? I keep thinking surely loads of couples are in a similar situation but then I don’t know, maybe I should be worried? Once little ones in bed I think we’re both so exhausted we barely even speak 🙃