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I received this email from my sons school today
Something happened and police were called .
I get they cant say what exactly happened but I dont like this guessing game
Where they tell you BUT dont tell you .shld I be worried ,shld I keep him home ,I dont think these emails are good enough
It just provokes stress and anxity that's unnecessary
I wld like to be told in around way something more without giving to much away as confidentiality is an issue and not all will be told .
Sending this shit
Is just shit .
*FROM THE SCHOOL *
We wish to inform you that an incident occurred at school today which required police to be contacted for follow up and support.
We would like to reassure our school community that all students and staff are safe, and that student safety and wellbeing remain our highest priority.
We have debriefed with students following the incident and provided additional support where needed. If your child has any worries or concerns, please do not hesitate to contact us at the school so we can provide further support.
Thank you for your understanding and ongoing support.
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Change schools if u can.
Tell them that after reading that email i feel that my child is not safe. U can keep confidentiality by not giving names. But factually saying what happened, that then the police got involved.
They said your child is safe
It sounds like it wasn't even involving your child? Just that they're letting parents know police were on site so that they don't hear it from their children.
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