First Persistent Absence Letter for My 4-Year-Old in Reception — What Would You Do?
This is the first Persistent Absence letter I’ve received from my daughter’s school. She’s 4, turning 5 in November, and in Reception. Her attendance is 85.3% after around six days off due to genuine illness, including diarrhoea for 3 days (following the 48-hour exclusion rule) and two episodes of fever.
I understand attendance is important, but I wouldn’t send her to school while she’s unwell. Would you be worried about receiving this first letter, or is it standard procedure?
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I think it’s standard procedure but I wouldn’t worry, she’s not of compulsory school age yet until she’s 5 so doesn’t technically even need to be in school yet.
Ignore it. We took our 4 year out for a holiday in reception as we wouldnt get fined. 🤣
School isn’t even mandatory until the term after they turn 5. Tell them to stick it x
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