Sleep training

Has anyone got any advice on sleep training? My nearly 15 week old is fine at night sleeps in her moses basket in our room still but in the day she will not go down in the cot in the living room as soon as I put her down she’s awake and won’t go back to sleep 😩

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I had the same problem, it took about 4 days of transfer, wake up, soothe repeat for her to start sleeping independently during the day. It’s laborious and frustrating at times but if you transfer and then baby wakes up try again and again and eventually they will learn to stay asleep by themselves during the day. Also because she was an only contact sleeper we use a fluffy bear which she lies next to and hugs on her side, we pat her bum till she falls asleep and she still feels like she’s being held. She still wakes up occasionally but she can sleep like that for around 40-45 mins. The bear trick isn’t really considered safe sleeping but she has been sleeping on her side since week 5 so we just let her sleep in her most comfy position.

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Your baby is tiny! Cuddle them, if you need hands free baby wear x

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Thank you both!

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Might not be what you want to hear but I’ve just given in to the contact naps! Mine is 4 months, naps for about 4 hours in the day in 30 min - 2 hour bursts. I just use the time to watch tv, read - all the stuff I can’t do when he’s awake! The chores can wait.

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Too young for any sleep training and being honest I think sleep training is bad for any age

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Sleep training

Has anyone got any advice on sleep training? My nearly 15 week old is fine at night sleeps in her moses basket in our room still but in the day she will not go down in the cot in the living room as soon as I put her down she’s awake and won’t go back to sleep 😩

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