DNA Test
My baby’s dad performed a DNA test on him and my baby without my knowledge or consent. My baby wasn’t even a month old at this point. Any advice or thoughts? He’s not on the birth certificate.
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Did he do it so that he would be added to the birth certificate later?
Or he thought you cheated and wanted proof the child was his?
It’s kind of hard to form an opinion without context. Was there cheating going on? Did you have a relationship with him or was it a one night stand? Etc.
If you're in the Uk and he isn't on the bc and/or doesn't have PR this is a criminal offence.
Since he didn't have your consent, the test he has done is legally invalid, which is why he's probably asking for another one and your consent to do so.
Another one is disrespectful
What a jerk. I would never speak to him again. Unless you want him to pay child support?
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My baby’s dad performed a DNA test on him and my baby without my knowledge or consent. My baby wasn’t even a month old at this point. Any advice or thoughts? He’s not on the birth certificate.
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