I am so misarble in my life,I feel like I made a mess out of it.I had to relocate due to domestic abuse,I m single mum,no friends,I have loved here for 4 years now,and I have tried to make friends,noone is interested,even if I do,they eventually ger weoooed up in the own life's.. I had a friend,and she got offered better job,got a new car,and I feel like her attitude changed,I m the one who os texting her all the time and she finds excuses not to carry on conversations....I haven't achieved any of my dreams,I donr drive,don't have a car,can't afford to travel,it's such a misarble life..the job I have I low paid(I struggle to find decent job,my daughter is 10 and still need school hours)I'm 45 and I feel like it's always gonna be like this,I feel like I don't have a capability of improving my life,unless I win lottery or find a rich husband....
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Money doesn't buy happiness it's all in the mind set. Yes it's hard I feel...not being able to drive is the one that I would find most hard. Never going anywhere much would make me depressed...

Any family around?

Private message me I’ll be ur friend if u ain’t living so far away or we can be text buddy’s if u live far away mate xx

your daughter is 10, can you take a few hours a week to either study sth to get some qualifications or even a hobby?
If you can find someone to teach you to drive, you can also learn a lot on YouTube and with an experienced driver. You'll probably still need to pay for a driving instructor, but not like 50 hour, maybe just 15. That would cost a lot less.
Hi, I’m Zainab from Nigeria 🇳🇬. I’m 18, and I have a 1.5-year-old daughter. ❤️
I’m looking for a friend I can chat with regularly, call, share gossip and little moments with, and talk about anything and everything! 🥹💗
Please don’t comment if you’re going to ghost me 😂😭. Age doesn’t matter to me as long as we genuinely connect! And I don’t mind long distance
This is what I look like. 😊💕

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I constantly brag to people about how amazing sex with my man is. It’s the best I’ve ever had, and in the beginning I just wanted to jump his bones constantly. We don’t do it as frequently, and it just feels like he’s never in the mood. I thought maybe this was just the honey moon phase ended, and we were in a solid relationship. We dropped sex to about 3-4 times a week, compared to the 3-4 times a day we used to do it. I thought this still seemed healthy, and then even when it dropped to 2-3 times a week, I still thought we were strong. Yes, I’ll admit sometimes it seems like I want it more than him, and he only seems to want it when I’m very obviously not in the mood. Then he made a comment to our friends about how sex life is the one thing he’d change, because while he loved me, the sex just isn’t very good and he struggles to get off when we are together. I felt really heartbroken over this comment, and he seemed shocked I didn’t feel the same way. I told him I thought we had great sex, and it was one of the best parts of our relationship in my opinion. He disagrees and says it’s not good, and he usually lies about getting off and just takes care of himself in the bathroom after we’re done. I feel crushed and asked for some space, and he says I’m being dramatic and that we were having good conversation, but I told him it didn’t feel good for me. It was heartbreaking and painful to hear, and I need space and time to think.
Now I’m here writing this. I don’t know how to feel. I do know I feel insecure and undesirable and honestly pretty foolish. Definitely not attractive or sexy anymore. Like looking at myself and feeling like everything has been a lie…
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I am needing a mom BFF that is low maintenance and trying to figure out life with kids especially with more then one kiddo! My kids are 14 and almost 1! Need a mama that we can vent back and forth to each other, pick each other up, be motivators, not afraid to be opinionated.

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Any moms from nyc who just get it? slang and all ?

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I NEED some 420 mommy friends ASAP!! it doesn’t matter if you live near me or in another state! I would love to FT and have smoke sessions 😅

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Hi all,
Wondering how everybody is juggling full time work, motherhood, housework, downtime, self care and sleep schedule 😭
Feel like I’m losing myself in it all!
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