Birthday party RSVPs

My daughter’s birthday is next weekend and we have organised a party with
her class from preschool. I sent the invites out around a week and a half ago but have only had 4 RSVPs out of 18. Should I be concerned?

I’ve never organised a birthday party for her before and with nobody responding I’m now worried she will only have 4 friends coming. Is it likely people will leave it until last minute to let us know?

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Hello, I’ve had the same. It’s my son’s party on Thursday. I heard back from 2 parents and I’m panicking. I’ve never organised one either. 😔

People always leave it to the last min or will forget and just come anyway. And then some people will say yes and then not come. It’s really all up in the air unfortunately. Your daughter will still appreciate even if it’s just one friend. Try not to make a big deal about who’s coming. Like don’t say names. Because if that person doesn’t come they’ll wonder why. Just be excited for the party and hopefully more people will show up

I use to work in a nursery and some parents use to ask the staff if they could remind parents to rsvp if they can come or not due to needing numbers for food/party place maybe worth a try or giving a list of who you need an answer from?

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