If you got a divorce, would you remarried?

I had a convo with my husband yesterday, and I told him if we ever got divorced I’m never marrying again or living with another man😂. And I’m curious how many others feel this way! I feel like being married benefits the man 1000X more than it does the women.

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No, but for religious reasons x

But I do love being married!

lol I really couldn’t imagine marrying again. It doesn’t feel fair to my kids to re introduce someone into their lives after chaos. It would take a very impressive stable person to make the cut 😬

It’s funny though, my ex swore he would never remarry… he’d die without me 😅🙃 and he’s on the path to start dating, remarry and “start over” as quickly as possible 🤷🏼‍♀️

I thought no but I am so grateful I kept an open mind and heart bc my new husband is the most sweetest and loving and supportive person I have ever met. He’s nothing like “my type” but he has a pure soul and loves me and my kids and considers them as his own. I’d say I’m happy I was able to heal and I went to therapy during and after the divorce to help me with all the feelings that came from it and the first marriage so I didn’t carry it over. But I’m very happy and feel so blessed to be able to have the marriage that I do now. They are completely different experiences.

Probably. But only to someone who’s rich.

I’m on my 3rd marriage. I answered yes but I feel like this is my last time I’m getting married. Divorced my first husband because of abuse. My second husband passed away. I was actually engaged again and he passed away and I swore off love. Then I met my current husband. Neither of us planned on ever being in another relationship period. We were just friends. But over time we developed feelings for one another and I think we built a solid enough foundation as friends before we became a couple that we will last.

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