How are you getting on with your partner?

We are not getting on at all 😞 both feeling hard done by and fed up i think. I think maintaining a relationship is harder than newborn bit tbh x

Ive had a few issues with my partner and feel like sleep deprivation has been a massive factor in this but also feeling like his life hasn't changed but mine us completely different and I didnt feel like we were a team as he doesnt wake up or share the load much. I had numerous chats with him and it was basically in 1 ear and out the other. Eventually I told him I was at the end of my tether and if he doesnt make the effort I dont know how we will survive. Weve now got a date planned and hes trying to be more hands on. I told him we need to remember to be husband and wife to and not just parents. Think consistently rausibg your concerns and trying to have a proper 2 way chat about teamwork is important and remembering to date. Even our health visitor told us dating is important.

Constantly arguing all the time and name calling due to sleep deprivation. And the fact that I deal with the nights and ask him to take the babba for few hours in the morning while I can sleep and he acts like it's the end of the world for me sleep for 3 hours. Making out I'm a bad mother for waking up at 1pm. I blew up at him because he doesn't know what I deal with. Not to mention I'm struggling with postnatal depression.