How soon after giving birth did you start going out with baby ?
Baby is only a few days old and hubby is doing drop off and stuff with the toddler so these no rush for me to go out but not sure when I fancy going out!
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I've quite enjoyed taking it slowly as like you my husband and my parents have been taking our 3 yo out and about so no rush. Today is day 8 for us and we all did the nursery pick up today, it's just a 10 minute walk there and back.
We went out for coffee on day 4, lunch on day 6 and it was actually lovely to be out and about so early on. Nice to have plans in the diary and not be cooped up at home! It's really personal though, just go at your own pace. We didn't go out and about with toddler and baby until baby was 2 weeks xx
We were forced to go out day 4 because baby needed to be seen in a&e, and then day 5 we had a midwife appt where they couldn't come to our house so we had to go to the midwife hub, and then day 7-9 we were back in the hospital again.
Day 11 now and I would love to not leave the house again for a few months..! But we've got a midwife appt next week again, and I'm tempted to have it changed to a home appt
We went out to register her the day she was born. Went out on day 2 after the midwife appointment.
Then day 5-11 (today) ive been away from home visiting family and have been out everyday with my LG.
It all depends on how you feel.
I felt like I could carry on as normal (only struggles I had was sitting for too long due to vaginal birth)
Day 5 midwife appointment which was a quick trip in the car. Otherwise day 7 was the first walk out in the pram. Id have gone sooner but the weather was too bad the whole week after birth.
It’s all what you feel comfortable with. I enjoyed being in for a week resting and bonding with our baby but I felt even better when we finally got out properly.
Went out on day 4 just a short walk to a local coffee shop i soon regretted it because walking really irritated my stitches and it hurt so much afterwards.
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How soon after giving birth did you start going out with baby ?
Baby is only a few days old and hubby is doing drop off and stuff with the toddler so these no rush for me to go out but not sure when I fancy going out!
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