Feeling overwhelmed and down.

Had my baby boy 3 weeks ago now and I feel like I'm heading towards postpartum depression territory :( I feel like I miss my old self, my old life and my old life with my partner. I've wanted a baby for so long and now I feel so overwhelmed by how constant it is all the time and it makes me feel like a failure 😢 how is everyone else coping at the moment?

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I would speak to the perinatal mental health services, they were great when I was dealing with ppd and anxiety. I felt exactly the same with my first it’s not nice at all when you get into your own head. As baby gets bigger you will definitely feel a lot more confident and positive about the way things are going. But definitely reach out and get that support even if it’s confiding in friends or family. Sending loads of love❤️❤️

I know exactly how you feel! I've been having these thoughts too! Been reaching out to close family and friends. Also made some connections on here with other mums. Sending love ❤️

I’m in the same boat sending all my love! I mentioned it to the health visitor and they’ve fast tracked me to speak to a specialist. I definitely wouldn’t have said anything as the old me but I’m glad I have as a mum. I’m scared of how far or dark my thoughts might get so I’d rather I got help now! Xxxx

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