I’m done. Can someone help me

Posting on here as you’re a month ahead. Since 3.5 months my baby stopped sleeping through the night and woke hourly. 7 weeks later he’s still waking hourly and will only be BF back to sleep.

The worst part is it’s a constant cycle of him having bad reflux and trapped wind and constantly feeding. We tried to rock him back to sleep for one hour last night but he wouldn’t sleep, again, only fed back to sleep.

My mental health is on the floor and I’m now being threatened with a parent and baby unit because I can’t cope. I have a toddler who wakes at 4am and I’ve had 2-3 hours of broken sleep for almost 2 months.

I’ve tried every single nap routine and timings out there trust me. Nothing works. Help.

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Take a deep breath - you'll be ok and you'll work this out. It might just be a regression phase. Has he always had the reflux and trapped wind?

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If I were you, I’d start to wean off breastfeeding altogether and either exclusively pump or combi feed with bottles. It might be difficult but baby will find other ways to soothe. Have you tried a dummy?
This also means you can use gavison in bottles which really helps with the reflux!
It might be tough for a few nights but to me it would be worth it!
Either way this won’t last forever❤️

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Take the baby to see an osteopath.

My son has reflux and suffered terribly with trapped wind and in the beginning would want to feed constantly to soothe the wind but it would then make it worse. After one session the trapped wind was gone and it improved feeding and the reflux a tonne x

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Posting on here as you’re a month ahead. Since 3.5 months my baby stopped sleeping through the night and woke hourly. 7 weeks later he’s still waking hourly and will only be BF back to sleep.

The worst part is it’s a constant cycle of him having bad reflux and trapped wind and constantly feeding. We tried to rock him back to sleep for one hour last night but he wouldn’t sleep, again, only fed back to sleep.

My mental health is on the floor and I’m now being threatened with a parent and baby unit because I can’t cope. I have a toddler who wakes at 4am and I’ve had 2-3 hours of broken sleep for almost 2 months.

I’ve tried every single nap routine and timings out there trust me. Nothing works. Help.

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