Need help! what would you do?
So I am possibly ending a long term relationship in the next week or so and have a slight conundrum.
My partners family do secret santa and it has been allocated, so I have his BIL and someone (not my partner) has me.
Would you still buy the gift? Or would you bow out after the break up?
I would want to buy the gift but have no idea what to do. I mean I could always put it to his family to decide too.
What would you do?
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Depends how messy or bad the break up will be. If its a civil break up then ide give the gift but not be expecting a gift from the person who's meant to get you one.
But I think if the break up goes bad and your partner is really not ok by it then ide bow out.
It’s family honestly. If you’re afraid that a Christmas gift to you BIL and a gift from someone else will mess up your family then you need not be in that family.
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