I really miss my perky boobs and pre baby bod. I catch myself staring at others cleavages and I wanna cry. I don’t feel sexy and young anymore. It’s so hard to accept because I can’t change without wanting to cry
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I have felt the same way honestly, my daughter is now 2 years old. And after leaving her father…. And finally have peace. I just started going back to gym … it’s only day 4 now and I do feel a little better about myself. I am starting to see a glow I think. I would say I am still in the thick of changing my mindset, and thinking more positive about my self. I just wanted to say you got this mama! Be kind to yourself! 💕

i cannot stop focusing on how my boobs are now, they are awful. im jealous of people who's havent sagged from having babies.
is there actually a way to make them perky again?

i mainly just dislike the extra skin on my stomach, especially cus i’ve put on weight now i’m breastfeeding and always hungry, i’m just trying to get out and walk around more but it sucks so bad, but also my husband reminds me that i’ve created a life and i’m singlehandly sustaining a baby seeing as i am his source of nutrients and fluids and that it’s okay, i think we just need to work on our mindset cus (at least for me) thinking of it in that way makes it not so bad

work out and if you don’t like something change it

I’m 26, 2 babies down and I feel the same way. It’s so hard and sometimes we never entirely go back. I’ve got loose skin that’s left forever as-well as stretch marks. You do learn to accept it and you can in terms of “weight” manage this over time if that’s what you want but there’s no rush! Don’t let social media or others bodies pressure you into the “bounce back” culture. Many women’s bodies are changed they just don’t show it. You will get your spark back ❤️

Even good change is hard 🫂

I just laugh at mine now after two lol but they will eventually go back in like 2 years . I think they have skin tightening stuff online tho

I would just like to remind you that your body is beautiful and try to change the way you see yourself.
Cause your body grow a whole human! For almost a year of your life! The lines on your stomach show what you did to hold this new human. Your boobs help support and nurture this human for how ever long you did.
What you did was amazing and your body is amazing 👏
If that doesn't do then what you can also think is would this mindset something you want your kid to have? Like after labor a women body isn't sex? Heck no that not ture that just bad silly brain talk.
Hope this help you in any way
It's been a hot minute since being on here but I'm back trying again 😊

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Booked this trip before I was pregnant. Will be 26 weeks going and 27 coming back.
Has anyone had any trouble getting a fit to fly letter? I asked my midwife and she said they have stopped supplying them - hoping to get one of my GP but have heard they don’t either!
Also any tips for flying when pregnant?!

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How do you mummas do your big shop without a car, i have always just chucked everything in the bottom of the pram and paid for it..obviously but today i had security come over to me while there was so many people around and accuse me of stealing🤦🏻♀️

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Genuine question to parents out there. Why is it so hard to say a simple hello to other parents at pick up/drop off at nursery , why go out of your way to avoid other parents, wouldn't it just be easier to say hello. Surely it's harder to avoid, seems so odd when we have something HUGE in common.... I get that we don't have time for full blown convos or room for more friends in our lives but surely it's just polite to acknowledge other parents.
For someone who's just moved to a new town I'm finding it incredibly difficult to find other parents to chat to, everything seems so closed. Yes it's my responsibility to go out there and go to mum groups and classes but it takes 2 to form a bond and there is effort required from both sides.
Im exhausted. Does anyone feel the same?
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I’m looking for a best friend. I feel like it’s been so hard to find genuine friends ever since becoming a mom, i’m looking for someone i can text every day, call, we can send tiktok’s whatever the case may be. Let me knowww🥰🩷

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I really miss my perky boobs and pre baby bod. I catch myself staring at others cleavages and I wanna cry. I don’t feel sexy and young anymore. It’s so hard to accept because I can’t change without wanting to cry
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