Sleep struggles

My nearly 2 year old is awful with his night time sleep and it’s getting to a point that it’s driving me insane. I’m pregnant again too and I really could do with him sleeping better once the baby is here.
I’ve tried moving his schedule around and all sorts but doctors have said they think it’s just him and his personality kinda thing.
Also I’m partly to blame as he cries and I go in and pick him straight up and majority of the time bring him into our bed 2 doctors have told me now that what I basically need to do is leave him to cry and he’ll learn he’s not coming into our bed but my heart just can’t do that although I know some people can and wonder at this point if I even have an other Choice.

But my main point of this post is that he’s stil in his cot, what’s the likelihood of if we get him a proper toddler bed’ that he’ll sleep better? Which bed would you recommend please.

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Help and honest advice needed

I absolutely do not agree with the cry it out method. My partner believes in it and wants to use it for how our daughter sleeps and I think if she wants to sleep on the bed with us let her in the middle of the night at least. He doesn’t want her in the bed at all. I think it’s cruel and we gotten into big fights over it. What is everyone’s thoughts?

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