Potty training and getting out of pram
Wanna start potty training my 26 month old but really don’t know where to start I tried her a few months back and she was nowhere near ready I’d ask her if she needed potty she would tell me yes so I’d put her on and she wouldn’t go she would wait till she come off then wee and poo all over the floor but she is now telling me when she has done a poo but not that she needs it or telling me anything about wanting or needing a wee she kinda shows when having a poo but I try strip her off to put her on the potty and I’m always too slow I’ve got another little one due end of may aswell and I was hoping to get her potty trained and out the pram before new baby is here or am I just wishful thinking and she only started walking a month before her second birthday in the start of September
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Out of the pram I’d say is probably unrealistic especially if she walked ‘late’. My 3 year old still uses the pram a fair bit. We tried to potty train at 26 months and he was nowhere near ready it was hard work. We tried for similar reasons to you we had another baby on the way but we ended up potty training once baby was here and my son was 2 years and 9 months and it was so so much easier!
Both my kids we potty trained like 3 months before they turned 3. You can definitely try. I’d get undies and put them on the toilet every like 30 min. No pants on just undies. I’d remove rugs if you can and have towels out. Maybe even get a tiny toilet they can sit on in the living room instead of going all the way to the bathroom and just let them sit on the toilet a lot. Try for multiple days and see if anything gets better. If it doesn’t it might not be a good time to start. We tried with my daughter right after she turned 2 and she peed everywhere all the time. We then waited 5 ish more months and then she was able to comprehend it more.
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