Anxiety

Eeek it's all getting real now! Still feel so anxious every time I wipe, I don't know how to stop feeling like this 🥹

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Having fun time with your husband

Before I get into this I just want to say I do love my husband very much. Been with him 10 years married for two. I don't know if this is just our relationship or if other women have the same problem. I have a very high s** drive and I'm always wanting to have fun with him. That's how I unwind and feel connected to him. When we were younger we used to have it all the time, but as we have gotten older it's slowed down tremendously. Especially when I got pregnant. He just did not feel comfortable doing it while I was pregnant. We did it twice because I had to beg him cuz I just couldn't take it anymore. But after giving birth to my son and I'm healed up, I want to have fun with him. But I can't get him to do it with me. It has to be on his terms. He has to be the one to initiate it. Last time I tried because it physically hurt cuz I wanted to feel close to my husband. He literally said we need to get your hormones checked. Is this just a me problem in my relationship or just anyone else have issues with this? Because I absolutely feel like crap and unwanted.

Partner taking new job

Hey everyone,
My partner is looking to accept a new job offer that’s likely to be 60h+ a week Monday-Friday.
We’re due our first baby soon and I’m concerned I’ll be left working full time (when baby turns 9m and goes to nursery) juggling nursery drop offs, pick ups, everything at home, bedtimes, mealtimes and our dog who due to his breed needs a lot of exercise.
Does anyone have any advice or success stories as I’m feeling a bit daunted!

Liver Pate :(

I ate a pack of liver pate last week before I realised you was not meant to eat it. I was craving it. It was a 175g pack with 30% liver pate. I was 15 weeks at the time.
I don't use any other retinol products and I obviously won't eat anymore pate moving toward.
I'm concerned about the vitamin a consumption.
Does anyone have any advice or reassurance for me? I've been dying from guilt since I found out : (

Ex in his life (I’m 29 weeks pregnant)

So my boyfriends baby mum (she’s 7 years old just turned) doesn’t let her go ANYWHERE without her so he never gets proper daddy daughter time with her, I use to think she’s just very over protective and be ok with this ie we all go for food together/to the park/shopping which at first was nice and we get on but now being pregnant I’m getting abit frustrated as in like when his little girl sees her baby brother for the first time she’s going to be there and see my baby before some of my family, I definitely don’t want to get in between them but I want my own little family now and have my own relationship without the mum being there finding out things before my own family because we obv course wants to share things with his daughter, he’s scared she’ll stop him seeing his little girl but like she’s 7 years old now and old enough to tell her if something goes wrong or doesn’t like something so I’m also frustrated like where does it end what age is appropriate for her to stop being around, me and him have been together for over 3 years now and she’s been there every single time we’ve done something with his daughter. Am I in the wrong for wanting this? I’m FRUSTRATED.

Also when we found of the sxxx of the baby his little girl wanted to be the first to know if it was a boy or girl so he FaceTimed her straight after and told her but then obvs her mums in the background so it pissed me off that she knew (the baby mum) before my own mum, like she congratulated me and was nice but it’s not the point I feel like I’m having to share everything with her and I want my own family unit

Looking for my bestie ✨ Nearby is definitely a plus, but distance isn't a dealbreaker 🌎🤍 Chicago Suburbs 💫

Hi Ladies! 🤍

Giving this another shot in hopes of making some long-lasting friendships through this app, or maybe even finding my best friend.

I’m open to meeting people nearby but also open for another state or country. I think genuine connections can happen regardless of where someone lives.

I’m 35 and I have a 6 y/o daughter and a 2 y/o son. I’d describe myself as a shy extrovert. I love talking, and voice messaging is my thing! It just adds a little more authenticity. 😂 I can also have an entire conversation using nothing but GIFs.

I’m pretty goofy once I get comfortable, but I can absolutely hold a serious conversation when needed. I love music, dancing, moving, laughing, making people laugh, and making others feel good about themselves. I will ALWAYS be your hype girl!

I understand we all have kids, husbands, boyfriends, maybe wives or girlfriends, and lives that can get hectic and busy. But I also believe that when you genuinely cherish and value a friendship, you make time for it, even if it's just checking in or sending a random voice message.

I’m Mexican and extremely proud of where I come from. I support the LGBTQ+ community, and I'm not into politics. Take that as you will.🤘🏼

Starbucks drop run

Who's up this early for the Starbucks 🐻 drop?