For the 1 and done mamas

Hi all, for all the mamas who has decided 1 is enough..how do you feel about that decision?

What are pros to this.
Most importantly how does your kid feel?

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Now that I have my daughter, my whole one and done mindset is being challenged. Just in the sense that I love her so much and I want her to have a sibling to grow up with. I don’t want more than two but having a buddy in a sibling is a lot different than being an only child.

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I was one and done then let things like social media get to me and I felt guilty and then started to worry about him being alone after we were gone so I had a second. I should have stuck to one. I am utterly miserable and my mental health has never been so bad. Unless You want another stick to one. Don't do it because of guilt or because you think your child needs a friend etc

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For the 1 and done mamas

Hi all, for all the mamas who has decided 1 is enough..how do you feel about that decision?

What are pros to this.
Most importantly how does your kid feel?

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Help?! I really need opinions

Is today’s test darker than the rest?
Im testing out my hcg as we had a medical miscarriage on the 15th October… we did bd on the 31st so now panicking …

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3 days late!

I am 3 days late on my period . I have not been this late since i found out I was pregnant with my daughter. I did take two different pregnancy tests I had at home one said negative the other one I had a line all ready there when I opened it up . So I did not take it. I am waiting until Wednesday to go get more tests and take them .

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IVF - 40

Starting IVF from the beginning aged 40 as we have no eggs left after a failed FET in May this year. We have a virtual call on the 27th then it’s all go from there. I am really excited but also feeling extremely nervous with the egg collection due to my age. I really want to be positive but I’m finding it really hard. I know everyone is completely different but looking for some positive stories from anyone in their 40’s older that have had a few embryos and went on to have a pregnancy ❤️ thank you!

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Faint positive ? Or indent ?

10 dpo this morning (help me out ladies)

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A&E said not pregnant but tests still show HCG

So I took Misoprostol 26 days ago, these tests are still showing slight HCG,
But I was in A&E yesterday with possible infection due to possible retained pregnancy tissue, i drank loads of water so my veins would be easier for blood tests and they said my pregnancy test at the hospital was negative (this was yesterday) and im still showing as faint lines for HCG today...
Do you think im still a bit pregnant (or there's still some tissue there?)
Im also slightly bleeding a bit red now but think surely i cant have a period if its still a faint line?
Sorry for long ramble!
I do have a scan this week to see if anything is there just thrown off that hospital said im negative but 3 tests at home today still have faint line...

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