My husband cheated!!!

Been gone this whole time military and finds the time to fall in love with another woman who I’m sorry is just downright ugly and looks old. I can’t find anything to salvage even if i wanted to. I think i already made my mind up.

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I'm so sorry this has happened. I see that you were long distance, I hope you're getting the support you need x

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i’m so sorry this happened to you. i agree divorce will be the best decision you could make. they never pick good looking ones and tend to go for an ‘easy’ woman usually. says more about his character than anything about you 🩷❤️

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i’m so so sorry this has happened honey, tell his chain of command, they don’t take infidelity lightly in the military! coming from a marine wife, wishing you all the best🩷

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That’s actually against military contract and if you have proof they will investigate him and fire him or drop his rank and if it’s someone in the military he’s even more screwed.

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I am just gonna start by saying I am so sorry this happened. You are beautiful and don’t deserve that but that’s what we get for trusted men men or men you’re getting what you’re getting you know you’re not the first woman to go through this. This is what men do. Every man is like this. This is why we’re meant to raise better men as mothers so are boys can grow up into men real men I’m sorry this happened to me too and I’m not ever gonna give a man another chance to do that again

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i’m so sorry this happened to you! if you guys are married and you have evidence he is cheating that can lead to a dishonorable discharge!
i think if he cheats in general he can get his rank lowered too! so not only will he lose his partner and child he will lose his rank and possibly job!
you deserve better and i’m so sorry!

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Girl the trash took itself out! I’m so sorry this happened to you but if it’s any consolation when I was in boot camp for the Air Force my then boyfriend cheated on me with my now husbands then GF while he was also in boot camp for the army. If you’re married go to his chain of command immediately!

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My husband cheated!!!

Been gone this whole time military and finds the time to fall in love with another woman who I’m sorry is just downright ugly and looks old. I can’t find anything to salvage even if i wanted to. I think i already made my mind up.

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I’m 35 years old, and I’m at a point in my life where I would really love to meet some genuine mom friends and build new friendships. I’m looking for women who enjoy laughing, talking, supporting one another, sharing life experiences, and being there for each other through the good and the difficult times.

I’m also a momma fighting for custody of my beautiful 10-year-old daughter, Olivia. It’s been a stressful and emotional journey, and some days are harder than others, but I continue to stay strong and keep pushing forward because my children mean everything to me. ❤️

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I’d love to meet other moms who understand the ups and downs of motherhood, enjoy good conversations, and want friendships that last longer than a season.

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