Partner doesn't love me anymore

He can say hes in love with me anymore just says loves you as a person and mother of my child.

Says can give me everything in a relationship apart from Romance

Im 32 weeks pregnant what do I do!

I feel hes having mental breakdown but he cant pin point to reasons etc and im so hurt and anxious

Wont do couples therapy but is doing his own therapy.

Wont go to GP

Its crunch time I need to know if if staying in our shared home tk have our baby or if I should leave and move into my parents house

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as long as he's a safe person to be around and have your kid around id say stay, he could change his mind, with a mental breakdown he probably momentarily lost feelings. but also this is only if He's adding to your life and isnt a burden or another child to take care of, hes gotta be useful to keep around lol

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Hmmmm hard one but I think leave, if he’s having a mental breakdown a screaming baby (but a lovely one 🥰) isn’t going to help, you need support not someone else to look after during having a baby is hard enough, you can’t help someone that won’t help themselves and least of if you go to your parents they’ll help take the stress off after birth ect, I understand you want to be there for him but you need to put you and baby first now 💕

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I think if you want your baby to have a 2 parent house hold and to receive that support that only your partner can give you, I’d say stay. I think women have to remember a lot of men are not deep into their feelings or emotions. And most likely he probably is just saying this so he can have his cake and eat it too-but trying to spare your children. As long as he’s not a bad guy and will be a parent with you, I don’t see the harm in staying. When you’re ready to start dating again, that’s another conversation you two ca have a revisit the issue

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Never chase a man. If he says he doesn’t love you it’s better to leave now before the baby comes cuz that way you aren’t dealing with what comes after the split when you have a newborn. Like what if you have to move out when the baby is a couple weeks old versus rn you can manage better.

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Wont do couples therapy but is doing his own therapy.

Wont go to GP

Its crunch time I need to know if if staying in our shared home tk have our baby or if I should leave and move into my parents house

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