Previous losses haunting new pregnancy 😭

I’m pregnant again, 4w1d. Haven’t been pregnant since May 2024 because it just wouldn’t happen. I’ve had 3 losses and my last loss I was 5w2d, so I’m so desperate to get past that. And so desperate to get to my first scan at 7w3d. Then so desperate to get to the 12 week scan.
I’m hardly sleeping because my body is so stressed as I don’t want to lose this baby, but I need the sleep!

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If you are in the UK you can ask your GP for progesterone pessaries and request talking therapy to help with your mental health. Congratulations on your pregnancy and wishing you a healthy pregnancy, labour, delivery and postpartum āœØļø

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Glad to hear you have them. I took them too and we are now 37 weeks with our rainbow girl (hence the insomnia lol)

All the bestā¤ļø

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Previous losses haunting new pregnancy 😭

I’m pregnant again, 4w1d. Haven’t been pregnant since May 2024 because it just wouldn’t happen. I’ve had 3 losses and my last loss I was 5w2d, so I’m so desperate to get past that. And so desperate to get to my first scan at 7w3d. Then so desperate to get to the 12 week scan.
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