would you leave your partner if they had a baby with someone else and you found out and if so
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Yes I would! I would have lost all trust with that person. And trust is so hard to build back. Plus now you will have to take on the responsibility of helping raise a child with someone who believes they were the only one. If this was due to infidelity

Depends if I was with the person when they got the other person pregnant if so then definitely yes

Yes cos u found out ,why couldn't he say that he has a child with someone alse ,that means he cant be open with you about alot of things.

Absolutely! I give props to any woman that can stay in that situation, but my trust and heart would be so broken that anytime I looked at him it would hurt all over again and I couldn't and wouldn't do that to myself.

If it was cheating and a baby was made in that event then imagine not only the betrayal but also having to be around that child and help raise it as well...absolute no from me!
If you mean they already had a child from a previous relationship and never told you and then they randomly pop up then that would just be very weird haha

If I found out my boyfriend had a child with someone else I would definitely leave. He would have lied to me for so long that I wouldn't be able to trust him again.
Also it means that he would be a deadbeat and would have abandoned that child and I WILL NOT support anyone who doesn't step up as a parent.

Yes, why didn’t tell me ?, why you keep your own blood hide ?

Depends if they had a baby with someone else before or after you got together. If it was after, then yes definitely leave them. If it was a baby from a previous relationship then I'd stay but have reservations. Why did they hide it and what else could they be hiding?
Ive received a letter from the NHS saying I have been referred to physiotherapy due to the nature of my birth. Nobody told me about this and it says its for pelvic floor stuff. I havent had any issues and thought my stuff was all signed off now. Do pelvic floor issues and such tend to be delayed? Has anyone else received this letter? Unsure whether I should book the appointment or if its a waste of their time.
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would you leave your partner if they had a baby with someone else and you found out and if so
why👀
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He was due the 10th but arrived the 12th at home with the amazing support of two midwives.

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I had an emergency c section the first time (5 years ago) and had to get a c-section again the second time (almost 3 years ago) because my file had me down as high risk
I just found out I’m pregnant, is there a chance I could do vbac? Has anyone had this experience?
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I am a first time mom in my 20th week of pregnancy.
Haven’t felt any strong baby movements so far. Is it something to worry about ?
Just feel like a gas bubble floating sometimes.
Doctor told me I have anterior placenta.

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I have been feeling my baby girl move from 18 weeks when movement was irregular (light taps), from 19 weeks I have felt bigger kicks, mostly in the evening but sometimes during the day. I had a very busy day yesterday (spend 5 hours travelling on the train and the rest in work meetings) and I felt an odd kick in the day, but evening movements were a lot more subtle and there were fewer of them. I know at this stage there is no patterns and the baby is small but does this warrant calling maternity triage?
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