💜TERMINATION COMPANIONS💜

(Abortion; past, present, and future)

Never be the same

I feel like I’ll never be the same after my abortion a year ago this month I’m currently am 24 weeks pregnant and I’m having a hard time connecting to this pregnancy due to my abortion . I was 15 weeks pregnant when I had mine and it still haunts me I hate it .

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I'm sorry that you're going thru this 💔 hang in there mama

Idk if this will make you feel better, but look at it this way : every single tiny thing we do in life makes us never the same again. This is no different, just affecting you harder at the moment. Idk, that thought has help me thru rough situations💜

I have an 8 month old I ended up pregnant again a month ago, sometimes it’s best to make that decision when it isn’t the right time or you don’t feel ready. There are days where I question myself if I made the right choice

I completely understand, I’m pregnant and I had an abortion due to my mother as a child and I honestly thought I’d never have kids so seeing myself as a future wife and mother is strange and nerve racking

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Am I just overthinking?

So my bf and me don’t live together and I am currently 31 weeks pregnant. I have had his location for a while and I honestly do check it a lot. For months I have noticed that randomly he will be at (what appears) massage places. Different ones and the same ones. This has happened at least 10 times. He is there for at least 15 minutes. He never mentions getting a massage that day when we talk. He has no history of cheating. We have not been having sex since I found out I was pregnant. I just feel like something is up

Babies first.. everything?

Am I terrible that I don’t feel the need to buy my son gifts for his first holidays. He’s 5 months old now
We didn’t do anything crazy for Christmas, new years, Valentine’s Day, Easter. I just don’t see the point right now. He won’t remember. He gets all and every toy I think he should have to help with development. We have a case of books from my shower we barely put a dent in reading….
I just don’t see the point in spending the money right now

*first birthday will be a HUGE exception pending on movement/development at that time**

How do you get your employer to let you WFH?

I work in insurance and we have multiple agents who work from home already.

I've asked to WFH and I've been denied. Apparently no new requests for WFH are being approved anymore.

I've not been given a reason as to why just rather that I'm not allowed to.

I know it's a right to request flexible working and they have to provide a reason for this legally so I'm going to press on it a little but I'm wondering if anyone has any tips?

Thanks x

When your angry at the world

Why is it when your hormones are everywhere you get mad at the world. Think its worse as trying to find send activity's for my child in holidays is hard and you realise how lonely you actually are. As you don't know anyone with send your child's age and blame yourself