Never be the same

I feel like I’ll never be the same after my abortion a year ago this month I’m currently am 24 weeks pregnant and I’m having a hard time connecting to this pregnancy due to my abortion . I was 15 weeks pregnant when I had mine and it still haunts me I hate it .

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I'm sorry that you're going thru this 💔 hang in there mama

Idk if this will make you feel better, but look at it this way : every single tiny thing we do in life makes us never the same again. This is no different, just affecting you harder at the moment. Idk, that thought has help me thru rough situations💜

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I have an 8 month old I ended up pregnant again a month ago, sometimes it’s best to make that decision when it isn’t the right time or you don’t feel ready. There are days where I question myself if I made the right choice

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I completely understand, I’m pregnant and I had an abortion due to my mother as a child and I honestly thought I’d never have kids so seeing myself as a future wife and mother is strange and nerve racking

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Hey laddies. I’m 27 year olds I’m a mom of 2 girls. I’m currently 3 months pregnant. I want to make some new friends I get bored I realize I don’t have any more friends. I stay in Tennessee. Also I’m a Virgo. Let’s be friends 🥰

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Has anyone else had issues with their friends that aren't pregnant or have kids?

I have a friend at work and we've become really close over the years. But ever since I become pregnant she just doesn't understand anything I'm going through which is fine except for the fact that the past few days I have been exhausted physically and socially. We have been helping another friend out for about a month now and we've had to keep him entertained as he's going through a rough time right now and it's drained me socially . my friend at work is frustrated because I'm not talking a lot and I'm exhausted and she doesn't understand why and I'm just curious if anybody else has had issues with friends that are not going to the same thing or have gone through the same thing as you connecting with you because she's literally mad at me. She stopped talking to me at work today and I just don't understand what to do.

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Feeling stupid

I got drunk last night and had unprotected sex he didn’t cum in me but I’m ovulating
And having pain and I’m freaking out

Can I take morning after pill when already ovulating/ ovulated
And is there any safe for breastfeeding

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31 weeks pregnant and lonely

How to deal with loneliness in pregnancy when your boyfriend goes out with his friends drinking 😅🥲 I only have three friends, two are never really free and one lives back in Liverpool and has her own set of friends where she goes to raves and goes on holiday with them lol. My boyfriend is going out soon for the night as it’s sunny and I’ll just be sat here crying like every single time! When does it stop 🤣

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Loosing connection

I’m currently 28 weeks pregnant and my partner can’t and hasn’t come anywhere near me sexually for about 12 weeks or so now. We tried but he got put off saying he was worried he was hurting the baby. I’ve spoken to him about this trying to tell him he can’t and he’s no where near, I’ve sent him email links I’ve had through on newsletters. My libido is through the roof and I’m worried we will drift apart if we don’t have aex again soon.

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Running mums!

Any other runners on here? Would love to connect ☺️

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