Open discussion

I think it’s both. I cheated for the first time in my life and I was under the influence. Deep down I think I wanted to. But I immediately knew it was a mistake once it happened and I came clean about it.

Definitely choice. The person can later feel remorseful but it was still a choice...

A combination of both. If I willfully consent to cheat on my husband, my poor character choice can have devastating consequences such as divorce, family court hearings, etc. It's a human error we can forgive, but not necessarily tolerate. Love the question.

If you can trip and fall in a vagina then that’s a mistake but if you undress and look for a place to cheat than what kind of a mistake is that

Sometimes it can be a mistake but it’s mainly a choice. For sure. Even if you feel bad about it, it was still a choice lol.

Choice! You choose to cheat

Both

Its definitely a choice because you would have contemplated it first.