Making friends is hard xx

Making new friends as a mum for play dates or just new friends in a new area is so bloody hard! Kinda giving up but determined 🥹 Moved here in december and just can’t seem to make friends,i just want my 2 year old to have a social circle aswell! She does go to sing & sign but even then we struggle as the mums are in a hurry to leave afterwards 😔 Feeling so lonely,doesn’t help i moved away from friends & i walked away from family for my mental health 🥹❤️ xx

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Hay 🙂 I know exactly how you feel.
I find motherhood very isolating and as my son was a covid baby
At the time all playgroups closed ,so it's been hard
If you willing . . More than happy to be a long distance friend 🙂 im from Australia

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My twins will soon be 11 and I'm still struggling with not having a circle. Will be happy to talk! I'm from Mumbai.

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So I've been on this app for a hot minute. I've talked to alot. Connected with even fewer. I am a full on mom. I have makeup..but do it sparingly. I let my hair do it's own thing most of the time. Putting pants on that don't stretch is a chore I don't need in my life. Fashion is ok but I choose comfort. I choose coffee and herbal teas over most alcohol these days. I do love a good glass of red wine thought. Hehe. I love dark humor. I laugh when I'm not supposed too. I am awkward and think my jokes are funny when they are not. I also have anxiety that I contestantly fight. I cuss like a sailor and I'm NOT an esthetic mom or perfect. I make mistakes daily. I also read alot including, but not limited to, dark romance and I have long before booktok became a thing. If I sound like your cup of tea with most of my flaws out on the open, message me. Peace love and health to yall.

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Me and my partner have been together for quite some time. But throughout my pregnancy He really started, just letting me down. Not being the partner I needed and not really being supportive. So during that process I've kind of just like started losing feelings and having resentment towards him. Rcently, he started work again. Which means I only see him once a week. And sometimes not even that, so it's just me and the baby.
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We have 3 kids under 5 including a 4 month old.

We have had discussions about increasing intimacy which i have been really trying. I have gone through quite bad ppd and plays and I also have severe endometriosis and had had issues with contraception so I was bleeding for abiht 12 weeks pp.

I have been giving it my all. On friday he got a bj without asking and because he was sick, I ran around him, feeding him making him honey lemon teas etc.

Saturday was crazy, our son was acting up and it was.overall a really strwasful day coupled by the face that our 2 year old vomited twice on friday night so we had very little sleep and I was up with the baby as well. He asked for sex and I said that I didnt feel up to it and now (sunday) I am being punished big time. Attitude, being told to go away, that he's done with me, that I'm never there for him.

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