Need advice

Me and my partner have been together for quite some time. But throughout my pregnancy He really started, just letting me down. Not being the partner I needed and not really being supportive. So during that process I've kind of just like started losing feelings and having resentment towards him. Rcently, he started work again. Which means I only see him once a week. And sometimes not even that, so it's just me and the baby.
So, any advice on how to like bring the spark back in our relationship, or if it's even worth fighting for? I love him and I want this to work, but I just don't know what to do.

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Hey girl personally one thing i learnt is that when you bottle your feelings in and don't talk about them you will definitely end up starting to resent your significant other. Try and talk to him tell him how you feeling and how you can come up with a solution to meet each other half way don't bury your emotions in it will make you bitter and irritated easily. Communication is key

Give him a chance to try and change his actions, maybe he isn't aware of the depth this affects you. Look out for his behaviour and williness to adjust and give you what you need right now. But communication is the fix, and that spark you'll need to feel closer. You need to explain to him what you need and what that looks like for him to show up. Bringing the spark back definitely comes after emotional repair. Hash it out with him when you feel in a calm place.
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