So to summaries me and my bd aren’t technically tg. But he be trying to grab me and touch me when ever he comes to see our baby. I love him but I have a feeling that he talks or sees other women I just don’t trust him. Today he calls me at 5 am to pick him up he’s in the middle of town. I’m like dude wtf are you doing out rn, whatever I picked him up. And he ends up falling asleep on the couch and he receives a call and I picked it up and it was some girl that he talks to. I answer the ft like it’s him lm like hello and she thinks it’s him. Then I’m trying to talk to her but I just don’t know what to say so I end up telling her I’m his bm and she’s like oh okay, “tell him to call me when he’s up” I said “ do you guys talk” she *sighs* and hangs up.. I was shook bc why wouldn’t she want to talk to me… tf did I do to her. He’s literally my bm. Idk if I’m the bitch or her. But if I was her I would have reacted nicer.. maybe that’s just me. I wasn’t being a bitch to her on the phone. I was nervous as hell. Smh
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He probably told her you were a jealous ex so she might of sighed when you asked like it confirmed it x that’s just how id of taken it but i wouldnt of answered either id of left it and just told him

Why would you answer his phone tho if you aren’t even together? If you aren’t together then he’s obviously going to be speaking to others. Very bizarre to be going on someone else’s phone that ain’t even your man, whether he’s your baby dad or not I don’t think that’s right. I think the girl has every right to act how she did cus she wouldn’t be expecting you to answer clearly and I think you and your baby dad need to talk about what’s actually going on between you two
Probablyyy did. I feel like that ain’t a girls girl thing to do. Like if she was in my position she would say the same. She got me mad tbh. I thought that girl would have been nicer.

This situation sounds messy. If you're not together then you have no claim on him and he can talk to and have sex with whoever he likes. Stop letting him be all over you.
Don't answer other peoples phones 😅 why would she want to talk to you? She doesn't know you and didn't call you - she called him.

Yeah what Brittney said you shouldn’t have answered since you aren’t together but you should set boundaries & get a understanding with him
Thanks for responding guys I have nobody to talk to ab my situation! Although I may feel like absolute shit, I know your comments mean good 💌

Tell him that you still have feelings for him because you obviously do. You let him touch you and you answered his phone. Let him know you crazy 🤪 about him and that’s why you answered. Cause the message he gonna put out there is that you are the crazy bm and he don’t deal with you. So let him know the truth. How old is yall child?

Since ur not officially together I would stay away from asking too many questions unless ur child is being around them. She probably hung up cus she didn’t want to deal with drama .

I would just remove yourself from the situation because it seems messy and don’t let your baby daddy come over and only allow him to get your kid and cut him off😭 let him have no access to you that’s wild.

Yall aren’t together.. don’t be his ride anymore and stay out of his phone. You can’t expect that girl to explain anything to you and truly he doesn’t owe you an explanation either since yall aren’t together. It’s time to heal 🙏🏽💜
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