I need some advice!

Hey never posted on here before but just needed some advice😅 my little boy is 10 weeks old and I’m a first time mum, he normally has 4oz a feed every two hours and is an alright napper, today he’s only been having around 2oz and when I’m putting him down for a nap he wakes up every few minutes and cries till eventually I get him out for a cuddle, not sure what’s happening really but it’s weird for him he’s not usually a crier

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He maybe going through a growth spurt. My LO would go through periods where she would eat a little less and be super clingy before suddenly being a little bigger.

Growth spurts can definitely cause him to be crankier, and they can cause him to sleep less because of the hormones going through his body, also teething can happen along time before those little choppers make their appearance. I would keep an eye on his temp just incase he has a little bug and call the doctor if you see it going up. My girls loved chomping on a cold teething ring even before they could hold it. Most of all you will find you know your baby best, (Mother's intuition is no joke) if you are worried call or see your pediatrician if for nothing more to ease your worries. 😉

Awww he’s a little cutie! babies are little humans and can just have ‘off’ days!
but i’d just keep my eye on his temperature xxx

Thankyou so much everyone!! Xx

Growth spurt for sure!!

I made the mistake of not winding my little boy properly after his feeds so he would get colicky. Gripe water worked well for us

Growth spurt and maybe gas

Everyone else has commented what i would have so i just wanted to say he's such a cutie!

4oz every two hours?? When do you sleep?!

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