Please tell me someone has some advice for this cause wow it’s trying. My almost 11 month old is fully on the move now and his new favourite thing is repeatedly pulling to stand in his cot. The problem is that he wears a sleep sack (mainly so his legs don’t get stuck between the bars tbh lol) so he’s not stable enough to lower himself down. So earlier he fell backwards and hit is head and now we feel like we can’t just leave him to it. Typically it’s his first full day at nursery tomorrow and my first day back at work IT’S LIKE HE KNOWS!!
Please tell me someone has some tips. Currently we are quietly placing him back on his back every time but he just keeps doing it! 🤣🤡
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My little boy has been doing this for a while…we haven’t had an accident yet but I’m tempted to try and swap over to a duvet and pillows now that he’s more aware. I think once they learn how to do something, it’s so difficult to get them to not do it. Wish I had some tips for you😭 x

Sounds harsh but that’s how they learn. My LG also had a sleep sack and quickly figured out how to get up and down, with a few bumps on the way.

My little one was the same at the age - a few weeks of that and he became more stable and aware - he’s now 15 months old, and has learnt to walk in his sleep sack 😂 I wouldn’t worry too much - think it’s a normal thing once they realise they can move about

No advice, I posted something similar a month ago as my LB was similar at 7 months and kept falling and hitting his head in the crib. He’s now nearly 9 months old and doesn’t stand up anymore in the crib during the night- he sits up instead and screams 🙈 but I genuinely was considering scrapping the crib and getting a floor bed it was sooo hard 🫂

Yeah, he’ll learn. My 19m has been pulling to stand since 10m in his crib with no issues. He can even walk with the sleep sack on the ground. It just takes time.

They will figure it out on their own. Falling is how they learn. Might take a few tries, but they'll get it

I started to give my lil one a muslin so she can hold on to while she sleeps. She took to it quite well and didn’t stand up and self soothed back to sleep.

He won't fall hard enough to actually hurt himself in the crib. Cribs are manufactured very safe. A fall from his own height or less typically isn't going to hurt him.
After he falls a couple of times he'll get better at it - he'll learn how to fall safely and he'll have better head and neck control. It's important he goes through it so he learns what not to do. And bonus - standing in the crib is good practice for walking! Mine used to just do circles while we read books, and she started walking a month or so later. 😅
What the fuck is that.
Looks like no seat belt, just some bar thing, and a kid that’s small enough to be rear facing in a forward only car seat?? Someone tell me there’s more to this and it’s not as crazy as it looks
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Idk how i can do this anymore🤦🏻♀️ im a single mom and i’ve been a single mom for a little over a year now, it was easier in the beginning since my son was younger but now that he’s older it’s been way harder. my mom has been my only support system but now she basically wants nothing to do with me, we lost my grandma (her mom) back in april an everything since then has switched between me and my mom. i understand grieving over someone is completely different for each person, but she has completely shut down how she feels about my mental health an is completely ignoring how i feel in general. my alone time an quite time have always been a big part of me but now since april she hasn’t care about my own space and it’s finally catching up to me, and it’s mentally draining me to the point where i want to harm myself bc i can’t take it anymore. my son was never planed, so me an the father first idea was abortion bc 1. we were 18 when we found out 2. we knew it wasn’t the time an place for it. but people got into my head saying to keep it an that imma have a strong support system if i have the baby and everything else you can think of, but where are those people now? no where to be found an don’t even reach out anymore. my einschl thought was if i went thru with the abortion i was gonna to regret it and from there i kinda went with that bc i didn’t wanna have the guilt built up in me for doing something like that so i obviously went thru with the pregnancy. but now at this point i have no support system at all to fall back on, i don’t work as i am the one to watch my son 24/7 so i can’t just leave my situation like id want to. my bf is basically my only support but he’s 2 hours away an his truck is broke down so he would have to use his moms car to get to me but she works during the week so it’s not even a option like i’d want it to be, living with him isn’t a option either. even when my bf is around he helps with my son, but when i’d like some alone time with him i’m not able to majority of the time bc my mom doesn’t want to watch my son for whatever reason, idk if it’s envy or what bc when i was growing up myself my mom was a single mother as-well an when she would try to get into relationships my father would always mess it up for her so she’s been single pretty much my whole life, she’s always wanted a big family but obviously never found the person, so i don’t know if she just envys me for the relationship i have with my bf or what. i’ve reached out to friends about this seeking for help but all they have to say is “this is apart of parenthood”, wanting to harm yourself is absolutely not apart of parenthood at all. i completely understand that being a parent is sacrificing your life for your child and loosing out on a lot of things like examples i’ve said before, but single mothers and mothers in general need a break sometimes. i’ve been dealing with the crying, whinnying, being jumped on, hair pulled, i have bruises on my body, restless sleep at night and not being able to sleep till 3-4am everynight, all while my “support system of a mother” doesn’t care about any of it, when she is watching him she can’t even last 10 minutes without getting upset with him bc he gets into stuff. i also completely understand that my mom isn’t my sons parent and that i am and that’s not what im trying to indicate at all bc i do understand 1,000% i am the parent and have parental responsibilities. but wanting to harm yourself as a parent bc no one is there for you or shows up for you is 100% not okay at all. i’m just seeking for help and for some advice on what to do bc i’m losing myself daily.

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Just wondering if most September babies are walking. We’re on holiday and so many people have commented on my just turned 1 year old walking, which I didn’t expect, I thought 12 months was average age for walking, his older brother walked at pretty much exactly 12 months too
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What is everyone's after school routine?
My son has started reception (he's 4). We get home at about 3:30 which for me is basically morning 😂 when he was in nursery he would come home at 6 so it was easy - dinner then bed.
I've been letting him watch a bit of TV but I don't really want him watching TV all afternoon. That's what we did as kids 😂

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Why are we having to pay extra for seats?! I really can't afford to add any more on to the expense. So I'm going to check in, and hope we are next to each other. We are a family of 5, 2 adults and 3 children.
How likely is it that we will be split - and staff care enough to give seats together? Please let me know if this has happened to anyone. I really can't be adding £300 more just for tickets.
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When it comes to our late afternoon and evening feeds, we seem to hit the same problem; he just won’t unlatch! Baby boy is 5 weeks and will just chew on my nipple, I assume to soothe, and if I ever try to take him off he screams. He’ll even be falling asleep and still hates it, and then won’t sleep at all!
Any one experienced something similar and know how to work around this? I’m sore and need a small bit of my evenings back!
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