Am I in the wrong or my husband?
I want to start by saying that last year my baby was only about 4 months old, and we didnβt even go to my parentsβ house for Easter. We went to his familyβs celebration and then went straight home.
This year, itβs turned into a big argument. He wants to go to his familyβs churchβwhich Iβve never been to, and he hasnβt even gone to in the four years weβve been together. I want to go to church with my sister and her husband, grab lunch with them afterward, go home so our toddler can take her nap, and then go to his familyβs Easter, followed by my familyβs.
Heβs completely against that plan. He wants to either skip our toddlerβs nap so we can be βon timeβ for his familyβs Easter, or make me choose between going to church with my sister or going out to eat afterβI canβt do both.
His familyβs Easter is from 11β1, which is exactly during our toddlerβs nap time. Theyβve even been understanding and offered to do another egg hunt after her nap or whenever we arrive. But heβs still not willing to compromise.
Instead, he wants to go to his familyβs church, skip going out to eat, put our toddler down an hour later than usualβor skip her nap entirelyβand then go to his familyβs Easter.
I feel like Iβm the one trying to compromise so we can spend time with both sides of the family this year, especially mine.
Am I wrong here, or is he being unreasonable?