Mummies in aylesford and surrounding areas 💖

Chidminder

Hi all, do you know any childminder or sitter that can look after 7 month baby. I desparately need to find one.

TIA

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Mother in laws

Anyone else having issues with their mother in laws?!? We use to get along great and now I can’t stand her. With are 3 month old I tell her how I want things done she waits till I’m busy with my 9 year old or I’m in the shower and does the complete opposite of what I asked and then yesterday had the nerve to cuss me out while holding my 3 month old . I wanted to kick her out my husband told me I should have but I didn’t manly because I didn’t want my 9 year old daughter to be upset. Idk what I should do but thanks for letting me vent

What is this called?

My husband and I have been having problems he cheated on me with some coworkers last year I decided to stay for several reasons but of course I’m not the same with him anymore and now he stays I’m not affectionate with him etc but one thing I have noticed is that if I do something he will do the same and say well you did it so I did it too it can be something simple as me taking a pic he will take one too, I put my TikTok following on private because I would see he was always looking at my profile so I saw that he did it too this was how I came to the conclusion that he copies everything I do and says he did it because I did it. Like this can’t be normal right?? I’m trying to get some stuff right in my life so I can leave because sometimes I get scared and I have no family to go to so yeah…

Should I buy him a tutu?

My son’s school shared some photos of him playing in a tutu and having fun, and I usually like to try and buy whatever it seems like his favorite things are at school to have at home too. I’m considering buying him a tutu because why not, just was curious….would you do the same?

Do I have a right to be upset?

My BIL turns 40 in June, his wife messaged asking if we would be joining for the trip, but I cant becauae by then I'll be 36 weeks and do not want to risk travel. Husband declined as well. W

Well today BIL wife messaged my husband asking for sure he can't make it for like a day or two? And honestly I knew this was going to come up. He hasn't decided and we will be talking it over, but why does it make me mad that she would even ask again? I know if she were in my place she wouldn't have her husband travel across the US when she is that far along

Activity ideas for a 2 month old

Hey mamas 🤍 what are your favourite activities to do with a 2 month old? I feel like I’m just feeding, changing and trying to get him to nap all day 😅 would love some ideas to mix things up a bit!

I do tummy time and try to get him to track toys or black and white cards and sing a few rhymes x

3 week old son

What do we do if my son is hungry an hour after he eats?
I’ve researched different cries and he always wants to eat my face after he eats after an hour and I’ve been trying to see if it’s different cries to make sure I’m not over feeding him or under feeding him. Tell me what to do, please!!!