Should I buy him a tutu?

My son’s school shared some photos of him playing in a tutu and having fun, and I usually like to try and buy whatever it seems like his favorite things are at school to have at home too. I’m considering buying him a tutu because why not, just was curious….would you do the same?

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Probably wouldn't buy a tutu for my child of any sex unless they express they want one.

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You could always buy a chest with clothes that you can play dress up in as a baby and toddler or go to a off-brand store or very cheap store and just buy a bunch of random clothing items and include the tutu so he has different options to play with.

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Go for it! Sounds fun!

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Absolutely!! Such a fun way to express yourself :)

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Not just a tutu. Get him the whole mini kids separate clothes rack and start collecting costumes one by one.
Including tutu. Then you’ll be prepared for any Halloweens or book week days. My son has like 6 so far including Mario and Luigi some days he wears it just because 💁🏻‍♀️😂 he hasn’t expressed like in a tutu but he does paint his nails w me when he sees me paint mine

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Ok but iyou gotta get the tu-tu fireman combo. That’s the best outfit!

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No just bc even if he really enjoys it there it could be one of those things he’d use there and not touch at home or vis versa .

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My husband wore a blue tutu and always played with it and he turned out just “right”. He even use to paint his nails 😂 If his happy and you want to do it, why not😊 do what works for you guys. I don’t think kids understand the meaning of “just for boys” or “just for girls” I believe as parents teach kids that and well I kinda feel when they are that small it shouldn’t matter. Just because your kids like opposite “gender” things doesn’t mean they will become gay/lesbian or transgender or whatever it is. Support your babies and show them love, support & safety. If we don’t give them those things, the world wouldn’t either.

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dress up is just that. dress up! maybe he really loves dress up so why not get a tutu in every color and a bunch of other fun dress up stuff :) i bet he’d go NUTS and play with it for hours!

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Should I buy him a tutu?

My son’s school shared some photos of him playing in a tutu and having fun, and I usually like to try and buy whatever it seems like his favorite things are at school to have at home too. I’m considering buying him a tutu because why not, just was curious….would you do the same?

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