Any FTM exclusively pumping?

I’ve been exclusively pumping for my little man since he can’t really latch. However, I can’t wait to stop pumping and get my life back😫 I keep going but it’s a constant struggle.

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yes! i feel it’s constant at the moment but i’m trying to pump as much as possible to try and build up a storage - don’t think it’s working though😭🤷🏼‍♀️😂

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My son wouldn't latch either, the hospital missed his tongue and lip tie, once we got that removed he latched, go to a pediatric dentist office and double check the ties

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I exclusively pumped with my first for 7 months. Literally the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Things I would do differently next time is invest in a portable pump so you’re not stuck to the wall. It’s a full time job and so exhausting but you got this mama! Just remember your mental health is just important and you do what’s best for you. ❤️

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I exclusively pumped for my first baby for 14 months!

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Yes me it’s tough! I also have low supply so have to add in formula and will never get a ‘stash’ but made peace with it mostly and happy my LO is getting my milk ☺️ it is such a labour of love 🤍

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I exclusively pumped initially with my son as he had a hard time too, but I just kept trying to latch him every day or two and he finally got the hang of it around 2.5-3 months old. Been mostly just nursing him since then which has been a game changer! I am thankful for my freezer stash from pumping though. Now I just pump to replace a bag of milk after I go out somewhere.

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2000% relate! My worst is the 00:30 pump 😭 I usually fall around because I cant wake up properly then after struggle to sleep again 🙄

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I exclusively pump too. At first it was so time consuming and difficult. I’m going in month 9 now and use the Elvie hands-free pump that you just place in your bra. So I can pump around other people, do dishes, play with the baby, etc while pumping and this has changed my life. I highly recommend investing in the Elvie or Willow if you can afford it. I mean buying the pump is cheaper than formula if you think about it!

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I pump about 4-5 times a day which isn’t as much as I should at 10 wpp but it’s what I need to do for my mental health😂😂 i have the medela pump and style too and I hate it

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Have you tried latching still. My son took 2.5 months before he latched and it took lots of practic but I guess it doesn't make it easier just less dishes 🤣

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I am with twins! It was too much breastfeeding both and I have a great milk supply. I decided it wasn’t worth the frustration…I feel like a milk cow lol. But going to continue especially with the milk shortage. Babies will be 3 weeks on Wednesday so it’s only the beginning for me

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Yes I did for 6 months

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My LO is 8 weeks and i’ve been pumping because she doesn’t latch. It’s SO much work! But I do have the piece of mind that she’s having a good amount of milk whereas you can’t always be sure with breastfeeding.

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I caved in and bought a willow portable pump yesterday... My baby is 10 weeks old and stopped latching at week 5 (we had a pretty decent nursing relationship before that lol), and the Motif pump I got through insurance was great at upping my supply levels after that, but it got more and more tiring to be attached to a stationary pump for hours.

The Willow pump seems pretty nice and gets her just a little less milk than I get out of the Motif, so it means that everything I pump goes for her feed (no stash possible because there's just enough per feed), but it's okay because there are a lot less parts to clean per session and I can still walk around and do stuff when pumping!!

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My LO is 12 weeks. We had trouble nursing from the start. He had trouble latching and nursing became super painful! I switched to pumping because it was so painful and his weight gain slowed. He had tongue and lip tie, after getting them released he bottle fed better but trying to return to nursing has been difficult, even with a nipple shield. So now exclusively pumping and it is difficult!

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My boyfriend booked a trip for us to go to mexico for a week as my push present. I have severe anxiety leaving my 7 month old with my mom. I know she will be in good hands but she’s exclusively breast fed for the most part but accepts bottles just fine. i have all my pumping parts packed and will pump when baby normally eats but i don’t want baby to forget me or have latch issues when i return!! any mommas ever experience this?

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When does it get better?

I was crying on the phone with the perinatal mental health team today and the lovely lady, bless her, kept assuring me that it gets better. I kept telling her I hope so because people have been saying that since having my LO and it just feels like it keeps getting worse. She assured me it gets better....

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Rant/WWYD

My sister (youngest, 24) has two kids, 4 & 1, and i (oldest, 30) just have my one who’s 6mo old right now, so i ask her for advice or call her to vent about things sometimes. Well im tired of her turning around and telling my other family members that I’m “losing my sh*t.” Literally have not lost my sh*t nor have i ever freaked out to her about my baby, i just call her to talk and tell her what stage my baby is in or talk through how im feeling, but she chooses to tell people that im like a complete nutcase or something which worries me that my family is going to start being judgmental about me as a mother or looking at me funny like I’m some fragile ticking time bomb.

What would you do in this situation? I’m already pretty much decided that I’ll stop telling her anything about my struggles, but I’m almost at the point where i feel like it should be confronted because she, of all people, should understand what I’m going through.

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Rapid cool/ hot shot method

Sorry if this sound stupid but how are we doing the hot shot method?
Are we boiling the kettle and letting it cool a little before adding to hot flask? Then with the cool water do you boil the kettle and leave it to cool right down before putting into another flask?
My baby brain is fried trying to work out the easiest way!

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Night time routine

Heya, my 3 week old daughter is currently exclusively breastfed and I’m not pumping. Can anyone recommend the best way to share the load with my partner? At the moment I’m doing all the feeds/burbs/settling and my partner is sleeping through which obviously isn’t sustainable, I’m trying to work out the best way to get him involved. Any advice very much appreciated!

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i just want someone to talk to😔😔😔😔

when things get hard i have nothing not any support from my partner im convinced he doesn’t even love me anymore but thats another story
I have a 3 yo and a 2yo that are in bed sleeping only just now. I have a 1 yo that’s been sleeping from 8 o’clock to 10 o’clock. I just gave her her milk and she would’ve gone back to sleep if it wasn’t that
I lost her dummy earlier in the day when I went out
so now she won’t go back to sleep and she won’t accept any of the other dummy’s i have!😔😔and it’s 10 o’clock and I’m gonna be up until 3 o’clock with her and when she does want to go to sleep i won’t have any dummy to give her she will accept and she won’t sleep without it i just wanna cry 😔i have nobody to talk to and i feel so alone i get no support from anybody i’m so tired and i don’t feel well to top it off😔

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