Dryness after having baby

Hello, I’m 7 weeks postpartum and my husband and I are trying to have sex again. We’ve been trying for like a week but for some reason it keeps hurting me. Everything was fine at my 6 week check up so I don’t know why my body won’t just cooperate. It’s not a lack of arousal. I just get dry or tight for no reason at all. Has anyone experienced this or know how to fix it? I want my sex life back!

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shower infront of children

Is it weird to shower infront of your children, or your children see you naked?
At what age should this stop?

I’m just looking at what everyone’s thoughts are as I have a 7 month old and at the moment it’s hard for me to shower without him getting upset.

We contact nap atm, otherwise I'd shower when he sleeps!

It’s easier to bring his play mat into the bathroom whilst I shower so i can at least wash, else i have to wait for my husband to arrive home at 5/6pm.

Keen to see what people's opinions are and how other people do this!

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Milk Supply

Hello,
I am 4 months pp and i originally wasn’t going to breastfeed as it is not something i wanted to do however after my baby was born with time i did regret it so i reached out to a breastfeeding consultant and they are currently trying to help me up my supply.I was wondering if you had any tips for upping supply and what worked for you.I’d appreciate any advice,thank you!

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GIRL DADS TAKING DAUGHTER TO BATHROOM IN PUBLIC

If a girl dad needs to take his daughter to the bathroom in public and there are no family bathrooms … I swear video online of a dad saying he uses the women’s bathroom but always knocks and announces ‘girl dad helping my daughter go to the bathroom’ and I love that idea and mens rooms are disgusting but wanted to see everyone’s thoughts

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Normal breathing for Newborn?

Is this normal? I’m FTM very worried. Just need reassurance or advice.

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Dummies

What’s everyone’s views on dummies? Are you planning to use them and if so at what age ? I am breastfeeding and my midwife said to avoid them as it might effect feeding but baby is feeding really well now and he has now found his thumb to suck for comfort ! I would prefer him to use a sterilised dummy than his hands that might carry germs but he is only 3.5 weeks not sure if it’s too early ?

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Ebf bottle refusal

I want to introduce a bottle so my partner and mum can feed baby every so often but she hates it! Have tried breast milk and formula and am using mam bottles. She also isn’t a fan of dummies. Goal is to give her formula as I hate pumping!

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