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I'm 32-33w pregnant and losing my patience with my 17 month old child. She was the most chilled out bub and I could take her out anywhere from birth. Now, I'm on maternity leave and have no energy to go out from being pregnant. It's like she's punishing me for being pregnant with her sibling. I'm sick of riding this out and listening to this "big feelings" garbage. It's not realistic to have her hang off me every minute of the day, I have shit to do around the house and want my own space! 🤬

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Omg! I’m not the only one. This is so relatable. I’m now 37 weeks but have been struggling since 34/35 weeks. The big emotions and dealing with my 17 month old. Im tired and fully touched out - the baby kicks & the clingy toddler I felt like I was going crazy šŸ˜

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thank you šŸ™

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This age is all about a new wave of separation anxiety and clinginess. It’s next level and there’s not much you can do about it. My son is 19 months and after 2 months it’s starting to ease up

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