Advise
So been with my boyfriend 3 years now got a little boy together he proposed back in June all seems happy.
But 2 years into our relationship I found out my boyfriend was watching porn, I know may seem normal to a lot of people but to me I don’t like it, it’s no different to watching or even getting involved with people who having sex right in front of you, so to me I don’t agree with it if your in a relationship, your partner should be enough for you. I spoke to him about it said I didn’t like it, surely you would accept your partners feelings? I even sent him photos & videos of myself so he didn’t have to watch porn. Well he continued I caught him out again, I even wanted sex with him and he said no he didn’t feel well but was okay to go for a wank and watch porn. I had words again, but now Iv noticed he liking other girls photos, not girls we know any girl but they will be ones with boobs out or vagina out, lingerie type photos, iv not said anything yet, but I just find it odd, if your in a relationship why do you need to look at other girls to wank? Is this normal? Because to me it’s not and it’s frustrating.
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I don’t think this is normal at all! I’d be feeling the same, I think it’s strange to not want to do anything with you but like other posts and watch it.
In my opinion I don’t think it’s fair or normal at all.
Thankyou, I think the same, why not have sex with me make excuses but watch other people on porn? It’s really odd x
Definitely not okay, i don’t tolerate porn and he’s respected it and that’s that! He has lots of photos and videos of me and of us so he uses those and that’s more than enough to fill his sexual needs. If he can’t respect your boundaries then it’s a big problem, especially as you’ve told him already. Speak to him again and make it clear you aren’t comfortable with it. If he doesn’t accept it then either tell him to get help if he’s addicted or even leave him. He’s obviously watched it so much that even real life sex can’t bring the same satisfaction of watching others do it and that’s a real problem
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