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Mamas, one of the fights I had with my husband, he told me he never will let me leave e with my baby because he said I don’t responsibility. I’m from another country and he’s American. We are okay now, but his phrase it’s in my head, because if anything happen, he can take my baby away !! That’s isn’t fucked up ? Should I just forgive and see what will happen ?

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100% abuse. Start documenting and saving evidence. Email it to yourself on an address made especially for this and do not keep the email logged in anywhere.

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This isn’t ok at all do you have family to help you because it sounds like he’s using you not being from here to manipulate you to stay

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I am American and I won’t even marry American men.

What country are you and your child in now? Are you currently living in the US?

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