Relationship

100% abuse. Start documenting and saving evidence. Email it to yourself on an address made especially for this and do not keep the email logged in anywhere.

This isn’t ok at all do you have family to help you because it sounds like he’s using you not being from here to manipulate you to stay

My partner and I had an incident like this last year.
He with his Mother were trying to deny me the right to go home (to my own mums house) with my toddler and newborn. Essentially telling me I could not leave the house.
This is abuse and this is also an example of coercion and control. Please don’t take that threat lightly and think about your options.

I am now in the process of ending my relationship after what has been a long experience of emotional abuse.