Friends
No judgement please,
I’m 34 years old, north east and never really had ‘my girls’ where we go for drinks and meals. I have friends but no one who would really invite me anywhere. Looking for at least one person who I can message (texts) and be like I’ve got my girl. Someone who would be willing to go watch musicals or a murder mystery at the theatre, cinema, coffee, walks, drinks. Looking for a friend for life.
Cheesy I know sorry
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Where in the north east are you babe? X
I’m south west and 35 and don’t worry you’re not alone! I think it’s really hard to make girl mates as you get older and sad to say I’ve outgrown a lot of my friends. It’s hard to find genuine people with similar interests and people who will make the effort. 💕
I'm in Hudds, I love a murder thingy! There's usually some good talks on at Victoria theatre in Halifax.
Musicals are good too as long as you don't mind my terrible singing 🤣🤦🏼♀️
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Friends
No judgement please,
I’m 34 years old, north east and never really had ‘my girls’ where we go for drinks and meals. I have friends but no one who would really invite me anywhere. Looking for at least one person who I can message (texts) and be like I’ve got my girl. Someone who would be willing to go watch musicals or a murder mystery at the theatre, cinema, coffee, walks, drinks. Looking for a friend for life.
Cheesy I know sorry
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I have no friends we're I live in California
It gets lonely would anyone like to be friends message me
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I don’t know if I should stay with my boyfriend
We have been together for coming up 2 years and we have a 5 month old baby girl. He was a great boyfriend and we spent basically every day together and then he had to go back home to live with his parents for a while in Wales and I had to stay in York with mine (personal family reasons on both sides). While we were apart I found out I was pregnant, he was happy, everything good. He would come to the scans and whatnot (as he should) but I had a really lonely pregnancy. Then he got a part time job in Wales and basically just kind of expected me to move there. I did because I didn’t want to be away from him or our daughter. I’m a very social person and he’s not, I’m happiest socialising with my friends and family and have a wide range of friends. He doesn’t speak to anyone but his family who we now live about 10 mins away from. His family are lovely and I get on with them really well but I feel really alone here too. I basically do the whole parenting thing alone. I’m with our daughter 99.9% of the time. He’s made ‘jokes’ saying if I want him to do all the baby stuff he will do it but he would want my maternity pay. I do a lot of meal prepping to make it easier and stress free so all he does is defrost dinner and warm it up and that classes as cooking dinner. He hardly washes up anymore. He drinks 2/3 of a bottle of whiskey most nights. He’s not a bad drunk or anything he just stays downstairs while me and our daughter are upstairs. He’s never done a bath time or a bedtime with our daughter. He has to be asked to do things for the baby and the house. Like have some initiative???!! I understand that relationships are give and take and a huge compromise and that they change after having a baby but I don’t feel appreciated or really wanted. I think he loves me but it’s easy to have me here. He says if we break up he wouldn’t be with anyone else because he couldn’t be bothered to date someone else. We don’t go on dates, no gestures or anything. I just feel like I’m in the way. And I know you’ll say to communicate with him but anytime I’ve tried bringing up moving back to York he makes all my points seem silly and ends up saying “you don’t really want to live in York tho do you?” And laughs at me. I just feel trapped and like I would honestly be happier and more free if I was a single parent because I’m not constantly irritated that he gets his own life and I’m stuck in the house with our baby and no social life. I love him and I want our daughter to have her dad in her life but at what point do I prioritise my happiness? Obviously the ideal situation would be that he changes his behaviour and starts acting in a way that values me and helps more but he prioritises himself over us. Any advice would be lovely💗
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How much do you spend on birthdays / Christmas?
Constant argument with my partner on how much is okay to spend! This year I have spent less but by thrifting have still got a similar amount of pressies for her, which he now says it’s both the cost and the amount of presents that bothers him.
I would say I spend approx £100 (slightly less / more depending). Same for Christmas.
Thanks in advance!
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Bestie where are you!?!?
Looking for a bestie, hopefully someone close so we can hang out and do target runs and fall things 🥰 someone looking for a genuine friendship only! Not someone who will ghost after a few days! I wanna text regularly, talk on the phone and actually build a real friendship! None this fake bs.
Mama of 2 boys and currently pregnant with another boy!
Married
2 dogs and 5 cats
I love reading
Anything true crime!
Coffee coffee coffee!
I collect phone cases , can’t have too many.
Fall girly at heart
Harry Potter
I have soo many lotions and perfumes , we must smell good over here
Candles!
Shy introvert but once you get to know me I’m a whole weirdo!
Lean conservative but don’t let that deter you I’m sweet and laid back
Church 🙏🏻
Sooo bestie where are you?!?! Let’s text! 😊
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Where are you!!!
Looking for some friends/ OR BESTIE to talk to! Long distance is very okay with me ☺️ I’m 28 with one girl and one boy. On my free time I play video games . I try not to be boring and reply fast lol. Let’s message?
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