Babyshower anxiety

Anybody else baby shower coming up? Im so anxious and nervous I’ve witnessed so many woman plan a baby shower and pay for a lot of shit just for the bare minimum people show up 😭😭 like why do people not show up to baby showers? Literally sucks😭😭 but im totally scared this will be my outcome at my baby shower 😣😣😭😭

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I'm probably not going to have one my family isn't okay with me having a baby at this time. and my fiance family won't take a chance to know me (if that makes sense).

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i feel you i have too many baby girl clothes already maybe i should put on the invites minimum outfits lol or would that sound too ungrateful?

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ugh i hate families that have strong opinions over shit that literally they cant control 🙄 but im sorry you’re going through that girl♥️

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It's fine
It's their fault that don't want to be around their grandbaby or their great grandbaby
I just feel lonely/left out of a family

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I understand how you feel!! Someone is planning my whole baby shower and I’m so nervous on who will show up. My husband’s family lives literally 20 minutes away and hasn’t said one word about going but we’re the ones asking if we were having one. My family lives in a different state so I doubt they come. I do have like 3 family members down here that has went over board on buying things for my baby.

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There’s probably going to be like 5 people at mine including me 🤷🏻‍♀️

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thats how i feel lmao😭

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😅

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I'm mentally prepared for that part tbh. I don't have many friends so I've made it a come and go type of event . We're paying for the cake and some cookies and then going cheap on decorations and it will be at my tiny apartment.

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