Is rough sex bad in the first trimester?

So I just found out I was pregnant 2days ago, my sex drive is always very high even still now, is sex still safe and I’m nervous about rough sex, can I please get some advice? I’ve had 2 miscarriages already but this is my first time getting 3 consecutive positives so I’m being hopeful! This would be my first baby and I’m constantly worrying anything I do will make me lose this one as well🥺

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Sec is 100% still safe and I just got wayyyyyy hornier when I was pregnant

No most of the time miscarriages happen because of something wrong with the baby as in it’s not forming properly it’s nothing to do with what you’re doing

Unless you have problems with your placenta (as in bleeding due to low placenta) you should be fine. Miscarriages are usually due to issues with the formation of the fetus and and are very very rarely (if ever) anything to do with what the mama has done. Best of luck to you x

thats exactly how I feel my sex drive has just gotten even more intense lol

i appreciate that cause I’m really uneducated on miscarriages

thank you🫶xx

yeah honestly nothing you do will cause it x

Oof, no, go right on ahead and just you wait for the second trimester sex drive 🥵

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