I feel crazy for asking this but there's been a couple times where I found blonde hairs in my partner's clothes when I do laundry...

There's no reason why there should be any other colored hair in our laundry. I'm postpartum and I honestly feel slightly crazy so is this something I should bring up with him?

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Without jumping to cheating, does he work with anyone that might be blonde? Some people just naturally shed more hair than others and it gets everywhere. You can bring it up, just make sure you’re calm, collected, and not sounding accusing. Hopefully it’s nothing.

It could truly be nothing. Honestly I shed so much that strands of my hair end up all over my husbands clothes and beard- even if we haven’t spent that much time together that day.
Bring it up to him, but I would keep the tone loving and non-accusatory. Basically what Jade said haha

yep I asked him point blank but in a respectful non-accusatory way yesterday and he's just as baffled and assured that he's not sleeping with anyone

Our baby is almost 10 weeks and our relationship has been incredibly strained and completely out of love and we barely talk to each other about anything intimate so it was weird to confront him about it yesterday all knowing that the relationship might be over

Neither of us has blonde hair we're both black hair

I'll just give him the benefit of the doubt because as much as it hurts that he could be with someone else I also don't have the energy to care being a new mom

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