How are you managing a full time job that is funding genocides—-Seeing our rights being slowly taken away. They already came for our reproductive rights. They’re trying to disenfranchise millions of female voters by passing the Save Act. Mainstream media and social media censoring. Mass civilian surveillance. Poisoned water, food. A health care system that puts a band aid on illness to keep the business going—and coming back home to your kids and pretending like anything about this shit is normal. Oh and our world leaders run the largest human trafficking ring. AND the US is trying to cover it up and refuses to hold anyone accountable. And these are the people in charge. Such commendable beings. I’m pretty anxious. So besides self care. How are you coping? Maybe you can comment on what you do for self care.
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I feel quite powerless so I do what I can. My family and I show up to protests, we vote, we’re community oriented. We try to work within our town to make sure that homeless people are fed and single parents have what they need to care for their kids.
I’m documenting news paper articles and headlines and journaling about events that are happening so that I feel like I am at least bearing witness to these events.
Maybe when my twins get older and they look back on these journals, it will help them to make more sense of the world?

I don’t have time to watch news with a baby but I try to stay informed when I can . Gas and groceries are become more expensive than before in Canada :(

Never watch the news and don’t do politics. I just focus on my family

I used to be the type to be constantly informed and up to date on politics, doing whatever I could to make changes and encouraging others to as well. When trump got reelected I didn’t even want to see his name so I just unfollowed all political social media. I put in so much work, so much advocacy and activism and i felt like it was all for nothing so I coped by shutting him out completely. Probably not the right response for the world, but I did it for my own sanity and tbh I’ve been much happier. I think there’s no shame in unplugging from it all if that’s what’s best for your mental health.

i’ve been getting a lot more active “just in case” and that helps my peace of mind a lot. also getting to know more people in my community and being more vocal about the worldly issues and making other people aware of them. and focusing on where i’m spending my money to make sure that i’m only supporting bad things against my will

Not everyone is American.

Focus on what I can control.

Focusing on things in my control for my little family. Watching the news pretty much feels like a movie at this point.

The only way I’m coping is taking small breaks from it. Like I’ll fully lock in, catch up on my informational podcasts and sources and become insufferable online posting about it, going to protests and engaging with my local mutual aid group and then I’ll spend the following few days trying to avoid political info and doing something outside with my kids. Honestly still not doing great though because things are progressively getting so much worse, it’s taken such a toll on my mental health and my familial relationships, I had already cut off my mom for her sh*tty morals and politics and a few months ago had a huge blow up with my dad about it and so he’s teetering the estrangement edge too lmao

My husband and I are not planning to stay in in the US. So, while we are surviving and currently in the US we are certainly planning an exit strategy
Message me if interested in joining my group💕🫶🏻🥹

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Ment to be marrying my partner July next year but in the last couple of months things have been rocky. He spent £800 in one day on onlyfans and has since then done it the odd time again but only £50 a time on the odd occasion. This was until last night where he has spent about £400 again. Would you stay or would you leave. Along side the spending he is messaging these people saying how attractive they are yet he never tells me that. We have a 3 year old together.
Sorry it’s not baby related but had no where else to turn.

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We usually use condom. But I'm so so scared that I'll be pregnant again by the littlest chance possible. I can't afford another baby I don't even have energy or mental capacity for it. My body can't handle it. I can't even make a mistake, I can't have any surprises. Im too scared to use the coil and I don't want to have pills. Has anyone got pregnant still using condoms?
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Being a woman does not mean you are fully capable of understanding all women nor does it grant you the right to invalidate another woman for choices you wont make.
Many times glares ive gotten are from older or younger women.
Generalization is a form of assumption which is in the ignorant family and when i read about it like calling out 'all men' gotta put into perspective that you aint talking bout my man.
Most unsolicited and absolute opinions ive heard are from women who feel like they know just because and its not true.
Im not a girls girl and i do not stand with turfs nor do i allow any women to speak over my life or my family without boundaries.
This app has lots of women who scratch the itch to vomit unsolicited, absolute & biased opinions just because they're a woman...feels good to get this off my brain much like how my block list could grow 🤣
Anyone else out there feel any of this?

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I’m thinking of getting one for my little girl but can’t decided if I should get it this Christmas/birthday or wait until next.
She will be 10 months at Christmas, will she get any use out of it this year?

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I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and currently pregnant. Lately I’ve been feeling depressed and suicidal and I feel alone like I can’t talk to him about how I feel.
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