For those that are paying attention to what’s going on in the US and the state of the WORLD…(Not enough people are)—How are you all coping?

How are you managing a full time job that is funding genocides—-Seeing our rights being slowly taken away. They already came for our reproductive rights. They’re trying to disenfranchise millions of female voters by passing the Save Act. Mainstream media and social media censoring. Mass civilian surveillance. Poisoned water, food. A health care system that puts a band aid on illness to keep the business going—and coming back home to your kids and pretending like anything about this shit is normal. Oh and our world leaders run the largest human trafficking ring. AND the US is trying to cover it up and refuses to hold anyone accountable. And these are the people in charge. Such commendable beings. I’m pretty anxious. So besides self care. How are you coping? Maybe you can comment on what you do for self care.

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I feel quite powerless so I do what I can. My family and I show up to protests, we vote, we’re community oriented. We try to work within our town to make sure that homeless people are fed and single parents have what they need to care for their kids.

I’m documenting news paper articles and headlines and journaling about events that are happening so that I feel like I am at least bearing witness to these events.

Maybe when my twins get older and they look back on these journals, it will help them to make more sense of the world?

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I don’t have time to watch news with a baby but I try to stay informed when I can . Gas and groceries are become more expensive than before in Canada :(

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Never watch the news and don’t do politics. I just focus on my family

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I used to be the type to be constantly informed and up to date on politics, doing whatever I could to make changes and encouraging others to as well. When trump got reelected I didn’t even want to see his name so I just unfollowed all political social media. I put in so much work, so much advocacy and activism and i felt like it was all for nothing so I coped by shutting him out completely. Probably not the right response for the world, but I did it for my own sanity and tbh I’ve been much happier. I think there’s no shame in unplugging from it all if that’s what’s best for your mental health.

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i’ve been getting a lot more active “just in case” and that helps my peace of mind a lot. also getting to know more people in my community and being more vocal about the worldly issues and making other people aware of them. and focusing on where i’m spending my money to make sure that i’m only supporting bad things against my will

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Not everyone is American.

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Focus on what I can control.

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Informing myself when I'm able, passing on that info to community members/family, and just raising awareness when and where I can. Keeping it part of conversations, making other people think about it, is what I feel would make the most impact from where I'm at and what I'm able to do rn.

I take breaks from looking at it all, and only return when I'm in the headspace to handle it. I cannot advise enough to avoid triggering topics when you are not in a headspace to cope with it. Time focused on my family, & hobbies focused on being self sustainable, help me cope with it all.

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For those that are paying attention to what’s going on in the US and the state of the WORLD…(Not enough people are)—How are you all coping?

How are you managing a full time job that is funding genocides—-Seeing our rights being slowly taken away. They already came for our reproductive rights. They’re trying to disenfranchise millions of female voters by passing the Save Act. Mainstream media and social media censoring. Mass civilian surveillance. Poisoned water, food. A health care system that puts a band aid on illness to keep the business going—and coming back home to your kids and pretending like anything about this shit is normal. Oh and our world leaders run the largest human trafficking ring. AND the US is trying to cover it up and refuses to hold anyone accountable. And these are the people in charge. Such commendable beings. I’m pretty anxious. So besides self care. How are you coping? Maybe you can comment on what you do for self care.

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