I need some encouragement y'all.

Just found out I'm pregnant, mammas with 2 under 2 please tell me I'll be okay 🥲

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I’ll have my second baby in 8 weeks and my first will be 16 months then…we planned it exactly like that! I always wanted to have a few tough years and then be done with it 😂 once the first is 3 or 4, the “worst” is over, I don’t want to start again then 😂 I’m having 2 girls and they will be so close in age that soon they’ll have the same interests and (hopefully) will be best friends!
Don’t get me wrong, it will definitely be challenging, but daily life with a toddler is chaos anyway, just hang in there and it will be rewarding

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yeah it’s crazy! And being now 32 weeks with a 14 month old can be hard too at times…I’m basically a whale now and chasing her is challenging 😂 but then she hugs and kisses my belly and my heart melts ❤️

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I had two babies in the same year! 🤣 my first at the end of January and the second in the beginning of December! I felt like I was more tired during pregnancy but I wouldn’t change it for anything ❤️ my oldest just turned 1 they are about 10 months apart, she tries to be helpful with the baby but at the moment it’s a love hate relationship! But I’m sure they will be best friends at least that what I’m hoping 🤣 it’s like having twins. Totally worth it in my opinion

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I'm in the same boat! Also feeling worried and overwhelmed. So thanks for making this post. Reading others' comments is encouraging. Feel free to message me if you'd like to commiserate. 😂

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You will be okay...I currently have a 14 almost 15 month old, a 3.5 year old and an 11 year old. I honestly think it was harder to have a 7yr old and a newborn than it is now. And at least my now 11 year old will help out.

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A true friend

I'm on here to make real connections with real down to earth women and moms. I GENUINELY want to make friends and be a friend. Only living this life once and I want to have friends in my corner that if God forbid I pass away or I'm ill will be there for me at a drop of a hat because I'm that friend that will be present and supportive myself. I jump between compton and hawthorne currently because my babies father works alot and lives in compton so I try to give him alittle more time with his baby girl. So if you are in the areas of Compton or Hawthorne feel free to msg. Me. We might have to take public transit if we go out and I might have to pack food because Im on a limited budget but that shouldnt stop me or anyone else from enjoying this life right!? Lets make memories that count when we're old and grey that we can call each other about and be like "what were we thinking!?" Or"do you remember when..." it'd be nice to have friends like that for the long haul.

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Who want to be my friend that doesn't mind me talking or texting them an we can be there for each thru the good an bad happy or sad long distance friends are welcome no judging over here

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Texting buddies??

Does anyone wanna text that can actually hold a conversation? 😫 I’m 28, 3 kiddos and happily married. Just looking for someone to get to know, maybe it’ll bud into a friendship! I’m in Livingston, Tx but I don’t care about the distance because if we click well enough it could be a fun journey to meeting each other :) Age doesn’t matter either but I would like someone around my age or older lol. Message me on here!!

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Is the App Worth It?🤔

All the connections Yet Not Connected. smh 😒 Adult new friendships seems to be for the birds. SMH. Just have to stumble upon them and cultivate them the natural way. Out in the wild (parks grocery stories or on cruises dropping kids off at kid camps for parent time 😆).

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