I need some encouragement y'all.

Just found out I'm pregnant, mammas with 2 under 2 please tell me I'll be okay 🥲

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I’ll have my second baby in 8 weeks and my first will be 16 months then…we planned it exactly like that! I always wanted to have a few tough years and then be done with it 😂 once the first is 3 or 4, the “worst” is over, I don’t want to start again then 😂 I’m having 2 girls and they will be so close in age that soon they’ll have the same interests and (hopefully) will be best friends!
Don’t get me wrong, it will definitely be challenging, but daily life with a toddler is chaos anyway, just hang in there and it will be rewarding

yeah it’s crazy! And being now 32 weeks with a 14 month old can be hard too at times…I’m basically a whale now and chasing her is challenging 😂 but then she hugs and kisses my belly and my heart melts ❤️

I had two babies in the same year! 🤣 my first at the end of January and the second in the beginning of December! I felt like I was more tired during pregnancy but I wouldn’t change it for anything ❤️ my oldest just turned 1 they are about 10 months apart, she tries to be helpful with the baby but at the moment it’s a love hate relationship! But I’m sure they will be best friends at least that what I’m hoping 🤣 it’s like having twins. Totally worth it in my opinion

in our community

Friends??

Heyy!! My name is Marie I’m 24 and I’m a ftm and sahm to a 5 month old baby boy🩵. I find it really hard to make/keep friends 😅. Honestly I’m kinda inconsistent, like we could text for days and suddenly I stop texting for a while (hence why it’s hard to keep friends) but I will always be there and answer whenever you text!! I’m from MA but I’m down to lone distance friendships🫶🏽

Skipping 6 week PP check up

Has anyone ever just skipped out on their 6 week pp check up?😭 I know this is stupid but I'm just curious. This is my 2nd baby, vaginal birth, no complications, 2nd degree tear, but I feel great! Physically and emotionally. I have no pain at all, no more bleeding, and I'm almost 100% sure my stitches are dissolved. My ob/gyn is 30 min away from me, and I will have to take both my toddler and newborn with me when I go cause my partner will be at work and I don't want to spend more money on a nanny. And I feel like it's gonna be a quick appointment since I have no problems and I just feel like it'll be a waste of time. Like I know I should get checked out just to be safe but I just feel so good and completely back to normal I really don't want to😭

Do you ever feel like ‘damaged goods’ since becoming a Mum?

So basically my partner and I are not on great terms, and haven’t been for a while now. I keep thinking this might be it for us and we’d be better off separating, but one thing always comes to mind when I think about ever meeting someone new. I know in the grander scheme of things that meeting someone else isn’t exactly top priority but I hate to think of a life where I’m single forever, so of course it crossed my mind a lot.
The thing which worries me is that ever since having a child and becoming a Mum I feel like I’m damaged goods, in the eyes of anyone else that is. I feel like no one would ever be interested in me again.

Does anyone else have this feeling, or felt this way in the past?

I’m in a straight relationship but I miss sex with women

I have been in and out of straight and lesbian relationships for years. Although I love my partner and can see a future with him I just don’t really get in the mood for him in that way and miss how women would make me feel during intercourse

Should I even engage with this lady?

I started to ask if ladies wanted to be friends on Threads and this girl responds to the to connect with me but she posts on her own page that she's seeking friends (plus a list of characteristics and hobbies in common shes lookkng for) and then said no kids. I thought that was so weird

Genuine friends??

Looking for girlies ! Besties/ hype girls/ long distance friends. ANYTHING. Seems like everytime I think a conversation is good people just stop texting back ? Even tho I’m the one holding the convos and actually answering. Just want genuine girlies to talk to 😢