I need some encouragement y'all.

Just found out I'm pregnant, mammas with 2 under 2 please tell me I'll be okay 🥲

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I’ll have my second baby in 8 weeks and my first will be 16 months then…we planned it exactly like that! I always wanted to have a few tough years and then be done with it 😂 once the first is 3 or 4, the “worst” is over, I don’t want to start again then 😂 I’m having 2 girls and they will be so close in age that soon they’ll have the same interests and (hopefully) will be best friends!
Don’t get me wrong, it will definitely be challenging, but daily life with a toddler is chaos anyway, just hang in there and it will be rewarding

yeah it’s crazy! And being now 32 weeks with a 14 month old can be hard too at times…I’m basically a whale now and chasing her is challenging 😂 but then she hugs and kisses my belly and my heart melts ❤️

I had two babies in the same year! 🤣 my first at the end of January and the second in the beginning of December! I felt like I was more tired during pregnancy but I wouldn’t change it for anything ❤️ my oldest just turned 1 they are about 10 months apart, she tries to be helpful with the baby but at the moment it’s a love hate relationship! But I’m sure they will be best friends at least that what I’m hoping 🤣 it’s like having twins. Totally worth it in my opinion

I'm in the same boat! Also feeling worried and overwhelmed. So thanks for making this post. Reading others' comments is encouraging. Feel free to message me if you'd like to commiserate. 😂

You will be okay...I currently have a 14 almost 15 month old, a 3.5 year old and an 11 year old. I honestly think it was harder to have a 7yr old and a newborn than it is now. And at least my now 11 year old will help out.

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Bestie

Looking for my bestie! I don’t care if your million miles away or if you are where I’m from in Tennessee! Message me! I’m 31 with 3 boys. All I want is someone to care just as much as I do ❤️

Anyone else?

I love kids but never wanted any.. I had a child by accident and realized I want to have him and ended up loving him and loving mother hood but til this day I feel isolated like I lost myself and don’t know who I am anymore .. mostly because I feel I didn’t choose motherhood .. and I feel lost in motherhood like this isn’t who I am .. having identity crisis .. still in denial .. I don’t know who I was before I had a baby.. anyone else went through this? I plan on seeing a therapist.. but any advice would help me see the light in this situation

Prenatal Vitamins

Hi everyone, I would love to know what prenatal vitamins you use and would recommend - just found out I’m pregnant so need to move from fertility to prenatal ones but am trying to work out the best one to go to

Needing some advice/help😩

Hi I’m a 25 y/o mum of 1 I’ve been with my partner/baby dad since we were 15/16, since before I was pregnant my partner has kept on asking me if he can “finish” in my mouth, now there has been a couple of occasions where he has finished in my mouth after a blowjob but not told me he was going to (to clarify I have let him once and I didn’t like it) but lately he’s been asking more and more and even jokingly said “we’re not having sex again till you do it” but last night he messaged me and told me it doesn’t matter anymore and just to leave it I asked why he said “because you’re never gonna do it” but yet I always say I don’t want to cos I don’t like it, and since last night something just feels off, but I also now feel really bad like I’m being a bitch, someone please give me some advice

Working mamas, I need your help.

Hi there! I’m a FTM, currently 29 weeks pregnant with our sunbeam baby. Getting here has been a journey but so worth it. I currently work full time and so does my husband. I manage a local spa and am a massage therapist (not so much these days 😅) and my husband works overnight. We are having such a hard time trying to figure out what childcare will look like after. With my job requiring more in person presence and us needing to have two incomes to manage our house hold,I am feeling lost. Plus daycare is EXPENSIVE!! In a perfect world, I would love to work from home but know I can’t do that with my current job which I love and have been with since spa opened. We have a few friends and family who are near but they also all work full time. I just don’t know what the best course of action should be and don’t want to put my family in a super stressful situation once my leave is up if I have to leave my job. 😞 any advice?

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