Anyone else?

I love kids but never wanted any.. I had a child by accident and realized I want to have him and ended up loving him and loving mother hood but til this day I feel isolated like I lost myself and don’t know who I am anymore .. mostly because I feel I didn’t choose motherhood .. and I feel lost in motherhood like this isn’t who I am .. having identity crisis .. still in denial .. I don’t know who I was before I had a baby.. anyone else went through this? I plan on seeing a therapist.. but any advice would help me see the light in this situation

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I am going through exactly the same thing I love my son but I honestly don’t know who I am as a person anymore and I never wanted kids and don’t plan on having anymore but I just feel so lost and alone especially cause I don’t have many people I can talk to about it

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Baby dad drama (pls read) I feel so angry and fed up

So I’m 11 days PP, and tbh my partner hasn’t been the best to me I’ve felt lonely my whole pregnancy and now PP he’s great with our 4 year old and newborn but with me I’ve been neglected and not bothered with for months. All the time he gets when the kids go to bed he’d rather play on PlayStation or go outside to vape

I saw on his phone that this girl had requested to follow him on instagram and asked him he said he had no idea who she was and it’s nothing. Later I saw that he actually requested to follow her first as it said “accepted your follow request” but he wasn’t following her.. I went mad and asked and he said he Dosent know how that happened cos he never followed her and I’m just like wtf.. so he told me he woke up and deleted it before I saw it. Now he’s lied and hid something, idk what to believe.. I know this sounds pathetic but we’ve had so much, a girl ringing him at 5am in my pregnancy and she tried making out it was a mistake etc, then before someone else he replied to and made out it was a mate even tho there was nothing in it, There’s always something happening his end but never his fault he says etc and wriggles his way out of it. What would you believe and most importantly ur advice on what I should do? I’ve lost all trust now.. like I said this has happened a few times now

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Sex in third trimester

Me and my partner never have issues with sex, it’s usually two or three times a week. Tonight I burst out crying mid sex ( ridiculous) because everywhere I moved I was just dying out of breath and felt like a whale. So uncomfortable and the mood was just killed. He reassures me he loves it still and I’m sexy ( I’m not right now 😂) but I just can’t find any position that feels natural without being out of breath! Any suggestions?

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friends

hey moms! i’m looking for a few genuine friends to get out with, play dates etc. I’m always in the house and i be needing to get out

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Is it just me…

I’m starting to think this app is full of depressed people and people who want friends but can’t keep a conversation just speaking my opinion so before someone start to post a chapter I’m just speaking how I feel..

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Bestie? You there?

Hey! I’m looking for my partner in crime
Would love to have someone to talk about anything with. I’d love to ft and just check in or show off something we see at the store. I have three kids, (8,7,1) and I’m 26💕
Let’s start a long lasting friendship that’ll turn us into family
*bonus if you live in the eastern shore tho 🤪 so we can grab a coffee and be menaces

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New friends in the area!!!

Hey mamas!!!!!! Just looking to meet new friends!!! I don’t mind driving! I’d like to meet a few great ladies! Kinda embarrassing but my only friend is my fiancé! I’m a mom to three boys in Prince George, Va!!!!!

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