I love kids but never wanted any.. I had a child by accident and realized I want to have him and ended up loving him and loving mother hood but til this day I feel isolated like I lost myself and don’t know who I am anymore .. mostly because I feel I didn’t choose motherhood .. and I feel lost in motherhood like this isn’t who I am .. having identity crisis .. still in denial .. I don’t know who I was before I had a baby.. anyone else went through this? I plan on seeing a therapist.. but any advice would help me see the light in this situation
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I am going through exactly the same thing I love my son but I honestly don’t know who I am as a person anymore and I never wanted kids and don’t plan on having anymore but I just feel so lost and alone especially cause I don’t have many people I can talk to about it