Sex in third trimester

Me and my partner never have issues with sex, it’s usually two or three times a week. Tonight I burst out crying mid sex ( ridiculous) because everywhere I moved I was just dying out of breath and felt like a whale. So uncomfortable and the mood was just killed. He reassures me he loves it still and I’m sexy ( I’m not right now 😂) but I just can’t find any position that feels natural without being out of breath! Any suggestions?

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How do you get your employer to let you WFH?

I work in insurance and we have multiple agents who work from home already.

I've asked to WFH and I've been denied. Apparently no new requests for WFH are being approved anymore.

I've not been given a reason as to why just rather that I'm not allowed to.

I know it's a right to request flexible working and they have to provide a reason for this legally so I'm going to press on it a little but I'm wondering if anyone has any tips?

Thanks x

I WISH I HAD A HUSBAND WHO COOKED FOR ME

Don’t you dare comment about how your man cooks for you- you’ll just make me cry😭😂 Cuz if you do have one of those, GOOD FOR YOU, I mean it.❤️😭🥹
As for the ones who don’t, let me hear it.😤😭

Would u believe this? Would you leave or stay?
Baby dad drama (pls read) I feel so angry and fed up

So I’m 11 days PP, and tbh my partner hasn’t been the best to me I’ve felt lonely my whole pregnancy and now PP he’s great with our 4 year old and newborn but with me I’ve been neglected and not bothered with for months. All the time he gets when the kids go to bed he’d rather play on PlayStation or go outside to vape

I saw on his phone that this girl had requested to follow him on instagram and asked him he said he had no idea who she was and it’s nothing. Later I saw that he actually requested to follow her first as it said “accepted your follow request” but he wasn’t following her.. I went mad and asked and he said he Dosent know how that happened cos he never followed her and I’m just like wtf.. so he told me he woke up and deleted it before I saw it. Now he’s lied and hid something, idk what to believe.. I know this sounds pathetic but we’ve had so much, a girl ringing him at 5am in my pregnancy and she tried making out it was a mistake etc, then before someone else he replied to and made out it was a mate even tho there was nothing in it, There’s always something happening his end but never his fault he says etc and wriggles his way out of it. What would you believe and most importantly ur advice on what I should do? I’ve lost all trust now.. like I said this has happened a few times now

I have no friends, no career and I feel trapped.

I’ve always found socialising really difficult. I have made a few close friends over the years, but those friendships ended up being quite toxic, and we’ve recently fallen out. In a way, I feel relieved because I’d been wanting to break that cycle for a long time, and now I finally can.

Making new friends has always been hard for me. I do try with people, but it never really seems to be reciprocated. I’m usually the one reaching out, and people don’t often ask for my number or follow up with me, which can feel quite discouraging.

I’ve also been diagnosed with ADHD and autism, which has helped explain why I’ve always felt different and why I sometimes feel like people just don’t like me. I do wonder if my fear of rejection or my desire to be liked might actually push people away without me realising.

I’ve always wanted a close group of girlfriends to spend time with and share experiences with. At the same time, because of my ADHD, I’ve struggled to stick to one career path. I’ve had so many different interests, and now I’m in my 30s without a clear career, which makes me feel quite behind in life.

I think happiness comes from having meaningful experiences with friends and family, and from doing something you genuinely enjoy. Right now, I feel like I’m missing the friendship side of that.

But I am really grateful that I have my two children — they mean everything to me.

Feeling lonely😞

The loneliness I feel when my partner goes out is horrendous, it makes me feel silly as he’s so supportive and there for me all the time but as soon as he’s out I feel so down and overwhelmed. I’m 31+1 and wondering if it’s my hormones or does anyone else feel really lonely?

How are we all feeling?

I have a 20 month old boy who is so lucky to have an amazing dad that is basically solo parenting at the minute because I’m too exhausted to parent.

I’m usually really active and busy but all I want to do is lie in bed and it’s making me feel really depressed and lonely because I miss spending time with my son and husband.

I also feel really guilty that I do nothing all day apart from moan about how shit I feel!

Anyone else?