I've discussed this w him many times on how it makes me feel and how disrespectful it is. Just a couple of days ago, I addressed it again because I saw from his phone that he did it again but he denied it saying "Idk why it was there, I didn't even open 9gag" (so he had this app called 9gag for him to look at naked sexy women -its now deleted because i deleted it out of anger) so I was like who would even believe that? I don't even use 9gag so for him to tell me that, he's making me look like a fool. But I just nodded and tried to compose myself...
We talked about it a couple of days ago & asked him why. It's been many times that we've talked & discussed about this issue but he can't seem to understand my point of view? He didn't deny it but he kinda got mad that day because he said that I was making more sense. That even if he was being asked, he couldn't find any answers to my questions because he said that I was right. He was saying that, he simply believes that it's more a nature of men to do those kinda stuff?
I mean I try to understand but, he has a wife. I have a body that he likes to look at, so why the hell would he still look at other women's body/private parts???
So when I deleted his 9gag app, now he's using Facebook & watches some half-naked women, dancing & whatever stuff they're doing for views.
I just don't understand.. he's a very good partner and father to our child but this is the only issue I can't ever deal with anymore. I asked him if it's an addiction.. he said no. So what is it?? I can't simply just accept that "it's their nature just because". It's so disrespectful & disgusting.. but I don't even know how to deal with it anymore...
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I’d try counseling/therapist together

I totally get you, it is not normal and really disrespectful. If i person has love and respect to you will never do things of this sort. In my opinion the only choice you got is sit and talk to him one last time, if he doesnt get you then threaten him literally he needs to get help cuz by breaking ur heart over these things you will start getting distant from him. Ive met many women who divorce simply because the husband watched porn and other women..